QUESTION: We’re not related by blood, and we’re both adults, but some say we look like brothers. He’s actually my stepfather’s younger cousin, and our family is in lockdown now. I caught him bating to porn in his room, which quickly led to us doing it together, then mutually and frot. OMG! Sometimes for hours a day. So sweet! But is anything wrong with this picture?
RESPONSE: The fact you are not actually blood relatives and are both adults means this activity of masturbating together and each other is really only your own business. You might as well keep enjoying it as much as you can, for as long as you both want to. According to some legal interpretations, because your mother married his older cousin, it might be considered incest. But that seems like pushing the definition beyond reason.
The only possible drawback is if what you are doing is discovered: it could disrupt the harmony with other family members who share your lockdown. At the same time, you two keeping each other happy probably benefits everyone else involved! It’s also possible that others present can sense something special between the two of you, though they might not want to admit it to themselves. That is quite often the case when we think something important is a secret. People can be strongly intuitive, and even tolerant on some levels, when there is loving warmth involved. Only be careful about your privacy.
You two are really blessed compared with many people in lockdown. Others often lack a partner they still share real passion with. Some are literally alone in lockdown. Of course, with the Internet and video conference programs like Zoom and Skype, to masturbate with others online is not only possible, it’s even more common now when so many feel they should social distance physically. For many guys that’s a great option: to share the bate with others online.
Many other guys in lockdown are less fortunate than you two. At the same time, considering your family situation, it’s a good idea to maintain discretion about this delicious connection you guys share. The subject is likely to cause controversy or serious trouble in your household if certain people find out.
Be cautious about your personal info online too, because some people cannot keep a secret. If you cam with others on the Internet, you never know where information or images will travel. Keep aware of that, but in the privacy of real-time between the two of you, go for it and fully enjoy bating together!
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
