Ask The Batemaster: I Still Feel Some Shame
I still feel some guilt and shame after I come. Even though I know better—I should not feel this. Why? Why just then...?
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Ask The Batemaster: Penis Sensitivity
When I’m really hard, I can just barely touch the underside of my head. I can shoot really easily that way! Is this usual?
JO Clubs For Newbies (And Overcoming Nerves)
Many men are curious to attend their local jackoff clubs but can’t get past the nerves. So I thought I’d share some tips.
Ask The Batemaster: Penis Size Persists
My penis seems really small to me compared with lots of guys. I'd like to bate in person, but I’m afraid they’ll think I’m small. What can I do about this?
Ask The Batemaster: Kissing Guys And Sex With Women
I love to kiss guys while we bate together. It’s so incredibly hot this way! But I also like sex with women sometimes. So. What IS this?
Ask The Batemaster: Masturbation Shaming
My buddies say masturbation is not real sex, that it’s only for losers… and I have to wonder, how do I handle this? How do I convince them how great it is?
Ask The Batemaster: What’s All This “No-Fap” Crap?
What's all this "no-fap" crap?
Ask The Batemaster: Old-Time Bate Buds
We're both married. We do “fishing” weekends together at a rented cabin. If our families only knew, it could be a disaster, I guess! But is this strange?
Ask The Batemaster: My Penis Fixation
Yes, I love to masturbate, but just seeing a penis, still always thrills me to my core! Do you think this is anything unusual or extreme?
May Has Cum, So Should You! (2021 Edition)
Happy International Masturbation Month 2021!
Ask The Batemaster: Celebrity Penis
I masturbate to naked photos of male celebrities, and of course not all of them are real photos. Is this a fetish? Is there anything twisted about it?
Ask The Batemaster: Ageism
I’ve got an older friend who I love to masturbate with. I’m 33 and he’s almost 70. What's with ageism? Do you think there’s anything odd or “off” about this?