Ask The Batemaster: Porn & Mindful Masturbation
You sometimes say that using a lot of porn for batefuel isn’t necessarily bad, but it doesn’t mix too well with Mindful Masturbation.
You sometimes say that using a lot of porn for batefuel isn’t necessarily bad, but it doesn’t mix too well with Mindful Masturbation.
I hinted we might masturbate, he got huffy and said he isn’t gay shouting: “No way!” I told him it’s not a gay thing, but a guy thing, and he slammed the door.
My boyfriend has trouble getting off with me, but has no trouble staying hard and blowing his wad when our bate buddies are involved...
"My older brother is a big fan of yours and gives me detailed tips on “how to!” He showed me some strokes using a banana. Is this okay, in your opinion?"
I'm straight and like to bate with other straight men. How can I hook up with other straight guys who only want to bate with me and not do other gay stuff?
Recently we stopped to mutually masturbate by a gorgeous waterfall. We were off the trail, but this couple came by and saw us. Could we get in trouble for this?
Whether it’s talking or moaning or grunting, making some noise and getting verbal can be an important part of getting deeper into your bate.
I still feel some guilt and shame after I come. Even though I know better—I should not feel this. Why? Why just then...?
My buddies say masturbation is not real sex, that it’s only for losers… and I have to wonder, how do I handle this? How do I convince them how great it is?
What's all this "no-fap" crap?
We're both married. We do “fishing” weekends together at a rented cabin. If our families only knew, it could be a disaster, I guess! But is this strange?
I masturbate to naked photos of male celebrities, and of course not all of them are real photos. Is this a fetish? Is there anything twisted about it?