sex

How To Explain That You’re Not Into Anal

You're a bator that just wants to bate. You're not a top or a bottom, but a side. Here's some tips and tricks on how to explain that you're not into anal

Ask The Batemaster: The Right Touch

Arousal, Ask The BateMaster, ATBM

Masturbation pleasure has many nuances and needs the right touch. What do you do when your bate buddy wants to finish you off but you prefer to do it yourself?

Ask The Batemaster: I Just Wanna Watch Other Guys JO

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, Bate

My best buddy is kind of versatile like me, only he also likes standard gay porn a lot. All I want to see is guys JO. What does this mean about me?

Ask The Batemaster: Virginity And The Bate

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, Bate

I’m still a virgin, even though I’m in my late twenties, and all I want is to masturbate. I’m a happy person! Do you think I need to lose my virginity?

Ask The Batemaster: Living With Religious Parents

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, BateWorld

I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a lot. We don’t talk about sex at all. Is it a good idea to try?

Ask The Batemaster: Am I Asexual?

Asexual, Asexuality, BateWorld

Am I asexual? I only masturbate once every week or two, and sex is not so important to me as it seems to many guys.

How To Negotiate Being A Bator In Love

BateWorld, bator, Bators

“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together […]

Sides and Solosexuals: Challenging the Top and Bottom Dichotomy

Bisexual Men, Bottom, Circle Jerk

There is more to sex than fucking. Everything that provides erotic pleasure is sex. People enjoy many different things, and the universe is full of orgasmic potential. All forms of consensual sexuality are valid.

Ask The Batemaster: What Is A Man?

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, BateWorld

This is a complex issue in some ways, and increasingly common as a situation we deal with today. But the simple and most decent approach, in my opinion, is to respect how someone wants to be seen, and how they view themselves.

How To Start Having Better, Deeper Sex With Yourself

Bate, Bate brother, Bate Session

I get asked by many young bate brothers how I am able to achieve such great orgasms. These questions come to me with a sense of disbelief, as if being a great Solosexual is elusive, when the truth of the matter is, every brother can achieve this status.