One of the Great Benefits of Masturbating With Your Partner
One of the big additional "benefits" of masturbation, especially for hetero married couples, is that it helps bridge the often difficult period of menopause.
Partners
Ask The Batemaster: My Partner Doesn’t Like Me To Masturbate
After many years single and lonely, I’ve got a great partner and we do love each other, only he doesn’t like me to masturbate! Help!
How To Negotiate Being A Bator In Love
“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together […]
Ask The Batemaster: Bating Without My Boyfriend
In any significant relationship it’s best to always be honest, if possible.
Ask The Batemaster: Should I Tell My Boyfriend I Need More?
...I usually have to masturbate myself too, to really get off. He just doesn’t have the touch I want and need, so I wonder if I should tell him?
Starting Over (Or New Year, More Bate)
Often you might find men of the community come and go and come back again. One can never really pinpoint the reasoning, and maybe they don’t know either, perhaps they just needed a break. One day you meet a cool bator, chat, bate, connect, and the next day his profile is gone. Did he get cold feet? Does he feel ashamed? They are all valid questions that deserve some answering and elaborating.
Ask The Batemaster: Is Solosexuality Anti-Social?
A happy solosexual can develop strong, good self-esteem. QUESTION: I’m 23 now, but still have an erection a lot of […]
Ask The Batemaster: Bating With A Married Guy
At this big company where I work, there’s this handsome guy with a little dark beard, who I don’t really know. For the third time, I’m in the restroom and at the urinal he “shows hard,” so we go in a stall and jack each other to incredible orgasms. Now I’ve snooped a little and found out he’s married, with one little kid and another on the way. Is it wrong to do it again, now that I know about his family?