When I was younger, I used to love to bate. It was one of my favorite moments for me to connect to my body, my masculinity, connect to my queerness, and my disability. From the…
Bateworld member and author Saboteur releases his new book THE 24HR MASTURBATION MASTER this week. He writes, “The aim of this book is to share my experience with you and help you be a confident…
QUESTION: We’re a happy couple: I’m 41 and my partner is 37. We’re not married, but we love each other a lot. Both of us adore the bate as much as anything, except maybe oral…
I’m sure he watches because it excites him, and he’s secretly stroking too. At the very least, it probably gives him an erection also. QUESTION: I share a dorm room at a Christian college, and…
How do I tell my partner I’m a masturbator? QUESTION: My sex life with my partner is very healthy. How do I bring up my masturbation addiction to them, especially considering that I’m a chronic…