men’s health

Ask The Batemaster: Isn’t Loving Yourself Just Selfishness?

Bruce, you often talk about self-pleasure as a form of loving yourself. Isn’t loving yourself just selfishness? I mean, at the expense of other people?

Ask The Batemaster: Word Choices Matter, Right?

Ask The BateMaster, Bate, BateWorld

Word choices matter—sort of! This is a good question, and it brings up the basic issue of language and how the words we choose relate to things.

The Best Sex Can Be With Yourself

Bate buddies, Bate Buddy, BateWorld

Instead of feeling shame that I’d just wasted time that could've been used doing something “productive,” I felt like I’d just had the best sex of my life.

Ask The Batemaster: Straight Guys Sharing The Bate

Ask The BateMaster, Bate Buddy, BateWorld

I'm straight and like to bate with other straight men. How can I hook up with other straight guys who only want to bate with me and not do other gay stuff?

Two Writers Talk Bate: An Interview with StrokingtheSoul

Bate, BateWorld, bator

The tables have turned in this exclusive interview with BateWorld members wildhorse100 and StrokingtheSoul. They discuss many topics like bate and Solosexuality

Ask The Batemaster: Getting Seen In Nature

Ask The BateMaster, Bate Buddy, BateWorld

Recently we stopped to mutually masturbate by a gorgeous waterfall. We were off the trail, but this couple came by and saw us. Could we get in trouble for this?

Ask The Batemaster: Sharing Pre-cum Safely

Ask The BateMaster, Bate Buddy, BateWorld

My buddy always wants to taste my pre-cum when we jerk together. He gets mad that I don’t want to taste his. Anyway, is it safe? What should I do?

Why Bate Dates Are The Best Dates

Bateships, BateWorld, Bators

I’ll share here the top reasons my penis and I consider bate dates to be the best dates, and perhaps encourage some of you to give it a go.

Ask The Batemaster: I Still Feel Some Shame

Ask The BateMaster, BateWorld, Bruce P. Grether

I still feel some guilt and shame after I come. Even though I know better—I should not feel this. Why? Why just then...?

Some Tips On Hosting A Successful Bate Date

BateWorld, bator, Bator buddy

I like to think that I host a great bate date. Why do I think so, you wonder? So what’s my secret? Here are a few tips to being a successful bate date host.