Masculinity

Ask The Batemaster: Chastity Cages & The Bate

I love self-pleasuring but also into chastity cages. Can you unite being a bator and being caged? Can you worship the penis even though you forbid yourself one?

Ask The Batemaster: My Imagination Seems Better

ATBM, BateWorld, bator

There is nothing weird about what you say, that imagining a celebrity guy’s penis might be better than seeing the actual thing.

Ask The Batemaster: Real Bator Pride

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, Bate

Lots of guys put down bating, like it’s just a joke, a stupid thing to do. Why do so many guys just not “get” that bating is so incredible and even profound?

Body Image and Representation in Bator Media

All sizes are good sizes, BateWorld, Bator Community

Men's body image issues are not talked about enough, even in the bator community like BateWorld. The primary factor that prevents men from speaking up is shame.

Ask The Batemaster: Living With Religious Parents

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, BateWorld

I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a lot. We don’t talk about sex at all. Is it a good idea to try?

Ask The Batemaster: Penis Size Persists

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, Bate buddies

My penis seems really small to me compared with lots of guys. I'd like to bate in person, but I’m afraid they’ll think I’m small. What can I do about this?

What Does Toxic Masculinity Look Like?

Acting Tough, Aggression and Control, Bate

What does Toxic Masculinity look like? I started this series off discussing what Toxic Masculinity is and will continue in this one to talk about it looks like.

Ask The Batemaster: What Is A Man?

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, BateWorld

This is a complex issue in some ways, and increasingly common as a situation we deal with today. But the simple and most decent approach, in my opinion, is to respect how someone wants to be seen, and how they view themselves.

Crystal Grades For The Perfect Pleasure

Abel The Crystal Bator, Bate Session, BateWorld

There is a grading scale for crystals that takes into account a crystals durability, quality and price of crystals and the grade for the perfect pleasure.