Ask The Batemaster: It’s Not A Gay Thing, It’s A Guy Thing
I hinted we might masturbate, he got huffy and said he isn’t gay shouting: “No way!” I told him it’s not a gay thing, but a guy thing, and he slammed the door.
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Ask The Batemaster: Is This Role-play Pervy?
I love to role-play with guys when we bate together on cam. Love older men, hairy men, their depth, and experience. I like to call them “daddy,” Am I a perv?
Ask The Batemaster: Anal Stimulation & Fingering
Sometimes my bud will stick a lubed finger in my butthole while we stroke. This rocks beyond belief! Feels so great, I can hardly stand it! But is it anal sex?
Ask The Batemaster: The Spirituality of Frotting
We can frot for hours with lots of lube, and don’t ever get tired of it. This is almost like a religion to us. I think it’s spiritual! What do you think?
Ask The Batemaster: The Psychedelic Penis
By cultivating my erotic energy mindfully, I’ve experienced profoundly altered states that seemed “out-of-body” or “psychedelic” without the use of drugs.
Ask The Batemaster: Bate Tips From My Brother
"My older brother is a big fan of yours and gives me detailed tips on “how to!” He showed me some strokes using a banana. Is this okay, in your opinion?"
Ask The Batemater: Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series
Can you tell a little about the characters in your own books that masturbate? I mean, the books you write. Who are they and how explicit does it get?
Ask The Batemaster: Real Bator Pride
Lots of guys put down bating, like it’s just a joke, a stupid thing to do. Why do so many guys just not “get” that bating is so incredible and even profound?
Body Image and Representation in Bator Media
Men's body image issues are not talked about enough, even in the bator community like BateWorld. The primary factor that prevents men from speaking up is shame.
Ask the Batemaster: The Holiday Season Phallus
I’ve sometimes heard you compare our erect penises to trees! How about Christmas trees? Are there any particular phallic significances to this holiday season?
Ask The Batemaster: How To Avoid Body-Shaming
Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot of online porn vids seem to cause me body shame. I’m a bit chubby and a “cub." How can I improve my body image?
Ask The Batemaster: I’d Love A Three-Way Bate
I’ve two great bate buddies, and they both love doing it with me. But so far, they won’t do a 3-way with all 3 of us. That’s my fantasy! Doesn’t it sound hot?