Ask The Batemaster: It’s Not A Gay Thing, It’s A Guy Thing
I hinted we might masturbate, he got huffy and said he isn’t gay shouting: “No way!” I told him it’s not a gay thing, but a guy thing, and he slammed the door.
Gay Men
Study on Aging and Sexual Satisfaction Among Gay Men (Study now closed)
Michigan State University has asked us to promote their Study on Aging and Sexual Satisfaction Among Gay Men (SASSY). You must be 50+ and live in the Midwest.
Ask The Batemaster: Is This Role-play Pervy?
I love to role-play with guys when we bate together on cam. Love older men, hairy men, their depth, and experience. I like to call them “daddy,” Am I a perv?
Ask The Batemaster: Anal Stimulation & Fingering
Sometimes my bud will stick a lubed finger in my butthole while we stroke. This rocks beyond belief! Feels so great, I can hardly stand it! But is it anal sex?
Cock Magick & Primal Rituals
Masturbation itself is not a sexual act, but rather a necessary component of sexual and physical health for all humans.
Ask The Batemaster: Getting Seen In Nature
Recently we stopped to mutually masturbate by a gorgeous waterfall. We were off the trail, but this couple came by and saw us. Could we get in trouble for this?
Why Bate Dates Are The Best Dates
I’ll share here the top reasons my penis and I consider bate dates to be the best dates, and perhaps encourage some of you to give it a go.
JO Clubs For Newbies (And Overcoming Nerves)
Many men are curious to attend their local jackoff clubs but can’t get past the nerves. So I thought I’d share some tips.
Ask The Batemaster: Kissing Guys And Sex With Women
I love to kiss guys while we bate together. It’s so incredibly hot this way! But I also like sex with women sometimes. So. What IS this?
Ask The Batemaster: Old-Time Bate Buds
We're both married. We do “fishing” weekends together at a rented cabin. If our families only knew, it could be a disaster, I guess! But is this strange?
How To Negotiate Being A Bator In Love
“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together […]
Ask The Batemaster: Ageism
I’ve got an older friend who I love to masturbate with. I’m 33 and he’s almost 70. What's with ageism? Do you think there’s anything odd or “off” about this?