Gay

One of the Great Benefits of Masturbating With Your Partner

One of the big additional "benefits" of masturbation, especially for hetero married couples, is that it helps bridge the often difficult period of menopause.

Ask The Batemaster: It’s Not A Gay Thing, It’s A Guy Thing

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, Bate Buddy

I hinted we might masturbate, he got huffy and said he isn’t gay shouting: “No way!” I told him it’s not a gay thing, but a guy thing, and he slammed the door.

Ask The Batemaster: Cocks Without A Face

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, BateWorld

Why are there so many headless torsos and bodiless cocks on BateWorld? Why are so many guys still afraid to be proud bators and let the world see?

Ask The Batemater: Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, Author

Can you tell a little about the characters in your own books that masturbate? I mean, the books you write. Who are they and how explicit does it get?

Body Image and Representation in Bator Media

All sizes are good sizes, BateWorld, Bator Community

Men's body image issues are not talked about enough, even in the bator community like BateWorld. The primary factor that prevents men from speaking up is shame.

Ask The Batemaster: The Bator Closet (An XXXmas Special)

2022, Ask The BateMaster, Batemas

I told my family over Thanksgiving Dinner that I love to masturbate. They’re still really upset and it’s almost Christmas. What's this all about? How do I deal?

I’m a Female Gooner Who Adores Mutual Masturbation With Men, Here’s Why!

Bate buddies, Bate clubs, BateWorld

Whenever I admit that I'm a female who enjoys mutual masturbation with guys, people are often surprised. I decided to confess my sordid reasons behind it.

Ask The Batemaster: How To Avoid Body-Shaming

Appearance, Attraction, Bisexuality

Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot of online porn vids seem to cause me body shame. I’m a bit chubby and a “cub." How can I improve my body image?

Ask The Batemaster: French Kissing & Nip Pinching

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, Bate buddies

I’ve got some great bate buddies, which is a huge blessing in my life! But unless they will kiss deeply and pinch my nips really hard I can’t come with them.

Ask The Batemaster: Living With Religious Parents

Ask The BateMaster, ATBM, BateWorld

I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a lot. We don’t talk about sex at all. Is it a good idea to try?