Ask The Batemaster: Dry Stroking
I know you say it’s good to stroke with lube, but I love dry stroking! I’m circumcised, and my penis is still really sensitive. What’s wrong with this picture?
ATBM
Ask The Batemaster: Living With Religious Parents
I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a lot. We don’t talk about sex at all. Is it a good idea to try?
Ask The Batemaster: Bate Buddy Jealousy
My best friend and I love to masturbate together. I know he does it a lot with other men online. How can I persuade him to stick to me as his only bate buddy?
Ask The Batemaster: Isn’t Loving Yourself Just Selfishness?
Bruce, you often talk about self-pleasure as a form of loving yourself. Isn’t loving yourself just selfishness? I mean, at the expense of other people?
Ask The Batemaster: Word Choices Matter, Right?
Word choices matter—sort of! This is a good question, and it brings up the basic issue of language and how the words we choose relate to things.
Ask The Batemaster: Straight Guys Sharing The Bate
I'm straight and like to bate with other straight men. How can I hook up with other straight guys who only want to bate with me and not do other gay stuff?
Ask The Batemaster: Getting Seen In Nature
Recently we stopped to mutually masturbate by a gorgeous waterfall. We were off the trail, but this couple came by and saw us. Could we get in trouble for this?
Ask The Batemaster: Bating While Driving
I drive cross-country a lot. During these long road trips, I love to masturbate, sometimes for hours while I drive solo. How safe do you think this is?
Ask The Batemaster: I Still Feel Some Shame
I still feel some guilt and shame after I come. Even though I know better—I should not feel this. Why? Why just then...?
Ask The Batemaster: Penis Size Persists
My penis seems really small to me compared with lots of guys. I'd like to bate in person, but I’m afraid they’ll think I’m small. What can I do about this?
Ask The Batemaster: Kissing Guys And Sex With Women
I love to kiss guys while we bate together. It’s so incredibly hot this way! But I also like sex with women sometimes. So. What IS this?
Ask The Batemaster: Masturbation Shaming
My buddies say masturbation is not real sex, that it’s only for losers… and I have to wonder, how do I handle this? How do I convince them how great it is?