Ask The Batemaster: Lingering Shame
Shame is something learned, usually from very early in life. However, I can offer you a way to gradually dissolve and finally eliminate such shame entirely!
Shame is something learned, usually from very early in life. However, I can offer you a way to gradually dissolve and finally eliminate such shame entirely!
Your nipples may be on the lower end of the spectrum of sensitivity, but given attention and devotion, you can develop a lot more sensitivity from them.
I have a great bromance with my straight buddy. We bate together and sometimes he plays straight porn and I completely lose my hard on. What can I do?
I’m still struggling with the urge to ejaculate after maybe just 10 or 15 minutes of stroking, at most. How can I prolong my bate session?
I don't know why most guys beat off to porn, huff poppers, and race to the finish line. Why don't all guys do Mindful Masturbation?
Albolene, Coconut Oil, Silicone and Water-based lube are all great. What are your thoughts on masturbating dry?
If the actual behavior is illegal, then photos of whatever behavior or situation you refer to are probably also illegal, so that’s really not okay.
This is a complex issue in some ways, and increasingly common as a situation we deal with today. But the simple and most decent approach, in my opinion, is to respect how someone wants to be seen, and how they view themselves.
I love to rub my perineum and press pretty hard there while I bate. Also, pushing there makes me cum extra intense!
I’m not much over 30 now, but the thing is, I’m really only attracted to much older guys, like at least 50+ maybe 80s, with white hair. Looks are not so important. Lots of guys don’t understand. What does this mean?
I read about this thing called the “Million Dollar Point,” a place you can press hard, right between your balls and your anus, to edge and keep your cum from shooting out.
Mindful Masturbation can improve self-esteem…I suggest a classic “Love Yourself” mirror exercise.