What if you don’t identify as a “top” or a “bottom” or even “vers”? In gay male vernacular, the term “top” refers to the one who penetrates, and “bottom” is the one who receives. In…
Male masturbation is no longer automatically portrayed as a shameful, hidden act. As I perused my newTumbl feed recently, I was struck by how much the representation of male masturbation in pornography has changed in…
While the penis is what keeps most Bators connected, I’ve come to understand that we have a fundamental theme that brings us closer than dong. This theme is connection. When I reminisce about the beginning…
Every bator brother can achieve this status. I believe that the best bate sessions start with a great mindset. As my bate sessions grow into new and exciting territories of pleasure, I’m curious if I…
Solosexuality has provided me the safe space that I need in order to take back my power. The first thing I did was panic. It was happening again and I felt it first in my…
It was difficult, in the beginning, to comprehend my feelings of horniness and not wanting to have any kind of sex; I wasn’t even in the mood to masturbate. Where did this feeling come from…
The process of unlearning the shame in masturbation can be daunting, but the rewards are glamorous. His apartment was spacious with touches of rustic modern flair that matched his woodsy urban aesthetic. His apartment felt…
Choose someone that wants your type of sex, and you’re well on your way to creating a beautiful sex life. The sound of defeat in my friend’s voice slowly transformed into frustration and then concluded…
Bateworld member and author Saboteur releases his new book THE 24HR MASTURBATION MASTER this week. He writes, “The aim of this book is to share my experience with you and help you be a confident…
One of our deepest thinkers on the power of masturbation and members of Bateworld.com writes here on why masturbation is so important during our Covid-19 isolation measures. M.B. Timothy, or Saboteur on BW, is a…
On the cusp of releasing his second book about life as a solosexual, Jason Amstrong takes a trip down memory lane to a post he wrote on The Bator Blog years in 2016. Once upon…
[REPUBLISH] This essay was originally published in two parts in September 2016 and now republished June 2019 with additional information and facts. Life After “The Little Death” We are taught that as men we build to…