My Chicago Trip: An Erotic Bate Date

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For those that enjoy erotic lit, here is a true tale: An erotic bate date from bisexual BateWorld member and author Doggyboner while on a trip in Chicago with his wife.

His bate buddy “Gary”, who wishes to remain anonymous, is also a BateWorld member. That is how they met. This is their story.

The Trip

Several months ago, my wife bought up a cultural even in Chicago she’d like to go to. I hadn’t been there since I was 12, but the trip looked interesting, and I recalled that I have a BateWorld friend who lives in the area. I’ll call him “Gary.” He and I have been online J/O buddies for years now and play once or twice a week online. He identifies as gay and is a few years younger than I am. I love helping him get off through sexy chat and encouragement. This trip, I thought, might give us an opportunity to have a play date in person. My wife and I have an open, mixed-orientation marriage (I am bi and she is str8) so I floated the idea by her and it was a go.

Bate Date Plans

I let Gary know and we started making plans. As the trip got closer, we even included fantasies about what we would do in person together as part of our sex chat. Then, we flew to Chicago. On the flight, I continued reading “Sexual Health and Erotic Freedom,” by Barnaby Barratt. It is a very sex-positive book which talks about the benefits of good, casual sexual encounters among other things. It was a perfect context for the experience my friend and I were about to share.

Originally, we planned to meet in an apartment he shares, but a last-minute change in his roommate’s schedule left us, a day out, figuring out an alternative. I discussed with my wife the possibility of using our room while she was out at a workshop. She was OK with it so plans were made for the next morning.

Gary Arrives

Gary arrived on time but my wife was running late, so he waited in the lobby. Finally, I texted him when it was time to come up to our room. We had exchanged face pics and more online over the years. Meeting Gary in person I saw that he was tall, and was sporting kind of a goth or emo look dressed in black. It was close to Halloween. I was only wearing basketball shorts, freeballing. I had some porn I knew we’d both like playing on a laptop in the background.

Gary settled in the room and we had already decided I would take the lead. I told him to sit next to me and he started taking off his shoes. I asked to help him take off his socks which he said would be fine. He knows I have a major foot fetish. I asked him if he would mind if I took off my shorts and so I got naked.

Foreplay

Next, I started running my hand under Gary’s shirt, feeling his smooth, firm body. He liked this and took off his t-shirt to give me better access. I included his arm pits. Next, Gary stood up and I helped him take his jeans off revealing his slender, but well-proportioned long legs. I told him to leave on his boxers for now. We had talked about kissing in advance so I had him lie down and started kissing up his torso, stopping at each nipple for a lick, then up along his neck and finally to his lips. As Gary lay on his back, I embraced him, and our tongues eventually found their wrestle partner. The sounds Gary was making  attested that he was enjoying this as much as I was.

The Goods Come Out To Play

Next it was time for Gary to take off his boxers so I could play with his cock and full balls. We both had saved up our loads. I had seen Gary’s beautiful penis in photos many times, but now I could appreciate it up close while holding and caressing his large, hairy nut sac. I used a feather touch on his scrotum at first, which elicited more moans. Then I cupped his plump bag in my hand and rolled his boys around. When I was done just playing with his balls, Gary said no one had ever made him feel so good that way. I was happy to hear that. I varied it up too, pressing on his taint and caressing his stomach and legs and other parts of his body. By this time Gary was leaking.

I love bringing pleasure to others, and knowing it. Gary is perhaps the most sensually receptive, AND expressive, person I’ve ever met. In that sense, this was a perfect match up. I guess that feedback loop – providing pleasure and hearing your partner’s response – is the essence of sexual arousal. We also vaped some cannabis together which heightens our senses when masturbating.

Not yet done exploring Gary’s body, I asked him if it was alright if I feast on his feet. He said, of course. I worked my way down his sexy legs and held each foot as I licked his arches and soles and sucked all of his toes, especially his two big ones.

Next was penis play, me jerking him and he jerking my boner some. We messed around with different strokes and angles and ways of bringing our bodies pleasure. He started humping my thigh which felt good for him at one point and I suggested he lie on top of me and dry hump me, cock rubbing against cock, so he did. This also gave good access to some more neck kissing and licking. I invited Gary to cum anytime he wanted and any way he wanted (knowing my wife’s and my boundaries were outercourse only, no penetration).

The Climax

Gary and I just spent a while fooling around and exploring each other’s bodies. I especially enjoyed roaming his. He was really my type, and a real down-to-to-earth, Midwest nice, guy. Finally, as we lay on our backs, side-by-side, I reached over and started playing with his dick some more and stumbled upon a stroke that must have really made him see stars. He was like, “keep doing that…” I was using a backhand grip, and there was enough play in his penis that on the downstroke the head would slap against his pelvis. I got the hang of it and kept doing it longer and faster, slap, slap, slap with each jack, jack jack, and finally was rewarded with a shower of cum droplets flying all over both of us. This, of course, was accompanied by more intense moans and gasps as Gary enjoyed his ejaculation and orgasm.

It was my turn, and I find my cock responds best to my own hand, so that’s what I did, stroking faster and faster as Gary held and rubbed my balls. Finally, I came with a crashing, long, drawn out orgasm that THC helps to enhance. After I calmed down we both were spent, just resting in the afterglow beside each other’s naked bodies.

Life-affirming & Fun

Finally, we cleaned up, talked some about what to see in Chicago, then Gary left. I texted him our pic and let him know when we got home and how life-affirming and fun our encounter had been.

Casual sex, or mutual masturbation, can be that way with the right guy. I hope more men can experience it. I’m always glad to hear your comments on my stories.

Written by BW member Doggyboner

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