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When my friend “Danny” (see previous blog stories in my BateWorld profile, Doggyboner) had a birthday coming up recently, I offered to take him to a naked drum circle at a local family nudist resort where he used to go with his wife and kids.

Danny and I are both bi. He had just moved close to the nudist resort, about an hour and a half away from where I live, so I let my wife know this would be a sleepover and we planned to bate.

The Naked Celebration Begins

Danny was naked when I arrived at his house and I only wore shorts for the drive, which I took off once inside as he showed me around the house. We had decided to ride bikes to the nudist resort and I also wore basketball shorts only, commando, for the ride, along with a small backpack with essentials like a towel, my wallet, vape pen and a few small bottles of wine we would share over dinner. We checked in at the office and took our shorts off and rode naked to where we parked the bikes near the pool and clubhouse.

After some nude hiking on the nature trails and just looking around the resort, we got dinner at the café and shared the wine. I also took an edible and enjoyed the cannabis vape pen now and then. We got caught up and had a great conversation about our lives as friends who have known each other for about 30 years. After a leisurely dinner we did some more exploring until the sound of the drums and the appearance of a large bonfire announced the start of the drum circle.

This was my first drum circle and as we walked over, I was amazed at seeing over one hundred naked bodies assembled around the perimeter. There were all shapes and sizes, ages and orientations including a lot of very attractive young men and women. There were two younger people in particular I enjoyed watching. One was a young women with perky tits, and another was a young man with a great body and cock, both dancing joyfully around the fire for all to see.

I couldn’t help but chub up a little in response to the atmosphere of open and casual nudity and naked beauty in such a public setting. This was truly a slice of heaven on earth and one of the organizers commented it was one of the better drum circles considering the turnout, primal vibe and how everyone felt comfortable being naked in front of others. We warmed our skyclad bodies close to the fire and I danced along with other naked revelers in this ancient ritual of communal bonding. The wine and weed only enhanced the spiritual and sensual experience for me. One younger naked dude was hitting his own vape pen and I watched as his erection went up and down as the night went on.

Eventually, needing to relieve ourselves, Danny and I walked in the dark along a path and stood side-by-side as we peed next to each other in the grass. In the darkness, neither of us realized that the port-o-john was right near us until a visitor popped out with a flashlight and shined it on us as we stood there crossing streams, pissing. At some point, Danny mentioned he was considering trying a prostate massage and I offered to help him with it if he’d like to try it later on when we got back to his place.

Some Naked Privacy

After a few hours, as the embers died down and the revelers starting to dwindle, we hopped on our bikes for the night ride back to Danny’s house. In shorts only, the cool breeze caressed my skin under the clear skies, stars and full moon that guided us home. Upon arriving, we took our shorts off again and sat down in front of the computer to watch porn. We both got erections right away and jacked ourselves and each other off some. We have similar tastes in porn and went through a couple of gay twink videos.

We did some anal stimulation then decided to go back to just bating except that Danny went and got his butt plug and asked me to slide it in, which I did. This enhanced Danny’s pleasure for the rest of our bate except he had the feeling that he might accidentally expel the butt plug, but that never happened.

We did experiment with one other form of play and that was frotting. I had done it before but Danny never had and wanted to try it. We got in position facing each other and held our hard dicks together in unison and masturbated them together adding spit to our lube. We’re both about 7 inches and Danny is a little thicker. The sensation of our sloppy cocks pressed and sliding together was amazing and as Danny humped against my cock through whoever’s fist was holding them, he was the first to announce he was about to cum. He stood up and shot spooge all in my chest hair which I quickly scooped up and used as lube to finish myself off with grunts and cum shots of my own. Pro tip: Another guy’s spooge is the best lube you will find.

We both came down from all the sexual excitement, cleaned off and were totally relaxed, as two bisexual friends with benefits, and settled into our separate bedrooms. I woke up in the middle of the night to go pee and found on my phone that a mutual bate buddy of ours (“Sebastian” from previous stories who is also bi) had too, and we started sexting for a little while. I went back to sleep until Danny and I both woke up the next morning. Still naked, we went about our morning routines and Danny made breakfast and showed me around his new house in the daylight.

The After Party

We decided to go another round and pulled up to Danny’s two computer monitors again to watch more porn. After masturbating together again for about an hour, we decided to try some toys he and I both had. Danny used a Fleshlight and I had brought my Quickshot. We applied lube and more spit and traded these toys back and forth, each sticking our hard dick into each other’s toy, then handing it back.

The first time I used my Quickshot it felt so good I came right away, but this time I was able to get used to the intense pleasure and fucked the toy for a good 15 minutes before getting really close. At one point all you could hear was the squish squash sound of our dicks penetrating our toys with porn playing in the background and the moans of pleasure this drew from both of us.

Finally, I decided to cum and borrowed Danny’s Fleshlight since I never used one before. I was going to cum in it then give it back to Danny to fuck. I slid the toy faster and faster up and down my rigid shaft until my orgasm built and I ejaculated my load of warm sperm inside the toy with loud groans. I quickly handed the messy toy to Danny who stuck his dick in it right away and started pumping. The feeling of the tight toy, combined with the warm, slippery cum, drove Danny over the edge until he ejaculated his own load into the toy adding it to mine. Danny’s orgasms are always hot and dramatic and this was no exception as his body convulsed, completely giving into the pleasure he was feeling, with loud noises.

We both eventually came back to earth, cleaned up and hung around his house and yard until it was time for me to drive back home.

This is a true story and it was an unforgettable weekend of open nudity and mutual masturbation between two bi friends living our best lives. Comments are always welcum.

Check out some photos we took during this time in my BateWorld Album

We even took video


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StefanJax (aka doggyboner on BateWorld) is bisexual and married to a woman in an open relationship. He is an avid Masturbator whose goal is to help men of any sexual orientation feel better about masturbating solo and with other guys. He enjoys writing both erotic fiction and non-fiction, not only as bate fuel, but to share good, sex-positive examples of what is possible.

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  1. Amazing story! Got a hard-on right away just from reading it. Thanks for sharing, it must have been amazing!

    1. Thanks so much @Jakub. You getting a hard on reading my stories is the best compliment my writing can have. We did the naked drum circle and bate again earlier this month (story is in my blog on BW) and plan to do it again with a mutual friend in July

  2. Ahh what great weekend. Bate buds are hard to cum by you are very fortunate. The story got me erect
    and now after finishing reading guess an orgasm is in order.

  3. Lol sounds like if you had a Cockblock toy or a Double penetration toy you both would of busted instantly since u both like frot so much.

  4. First, …sounds like you two guys had a great time. To attend an event or do something out of the ordinary ultimately strengthens the bonds of friendship. And that is healthy living and good for the soul.
    However, I can just imagine. You mentioned nothing about a response from a “someone” so I will not assume but had that event been with me…my wife would have been beside herself with anger. So why is it that most women, a good majority, just cannot stand nor understand male behavior. Most guys are comfortable being nude in front of others or even jerking off. We don’t see it as a major problem. At least, we older and more seasoned fellas. I’m 66. We grew up as boys. At least in Texas. It was nothing to strip necked and jump in a water hole to cool down.
    But I’ve noticed many of the younger guys. Those who were raised by a single mom with no adult male figure in their lives. Their mothers have stripped their natural maleness from them. When a young guy steps into a sauna and sees guys jerking off together…he gets offended and hollers at gym management like I’ve heard many women do…We have a problem with the younger generation. I know, it’s not all young guys but it’s a lot. I need a beer now.

  5. J’ai adoré après quelques ligne j’ai commencé à durcir et le passage quand vous êtes allé pissé ensemble ma faire bandé dur et la suite de ton histoire là tu m’a eu j’ai gicler toute mon sperme sur mon ventre continue j’adore

  6. No better bonding in friendship than openly, honestly sharing the essence of our beings. Sharing the physical pleasures of masturbation, an activity that we’re conditioned to enjoy alone, is brutally honest, and beautifully celebrated with a true friend of the same gender.
    Now alone, and fully erect, I’m ready to masturbate “with you.” Soon, I will share your story, and some healthy bating, with a good buddy.
    Thanks for breaking down the barriers to good, clean fun that we all enjoy in this life !

  7. This is a great story. I’m married to a woman but very much bi curious. I’d love a guy buddy like this. This story got me so hot. As I started reading, I reached into my shorts and started stroking my penis. It wasn’t a choice – I had to touch myself. As my penis got bigger and stiffer, I slipped my shorts off. Again , not a choice. Now I’m lying in the couch in only my t shirt. my penis is slick and totally stiff. Mmm, feels so good.

  8. Your realization, acceptance, and practices of this primal pleasure in each other’s presence, is a beautiful, healthy bonding experience in any friendship. Mutual buddy bating reinforces our human sexual experience as so much more than an act of procreation, bringing significance to the gripping, stroking, and ejaculating we experience with our bate bros. We produce billions more sperm than we’ll ever use to create new life, thus sharing the intense joy and pleasure makes perfect sense among guys… friends and strangers. Agree, relax, stroke, and release !