Living As A Solosexual: A Manifesto
Being an open solosexual is something M.B. Timothy (Saboteur on Bateworld) knows well and celebrates the relationship he has with himself proudly.
Being an open solosexual is something M.B. Timothy (Saboteur on Bateworld) knows well and celebrates the relationship he has with himself proudly.
I know that most readers here probably don’t care who the butt players are, who the “bottoms” are or why because they (we) realize it’s part of our nature as men and as masturbators to explore all areas of yourself regardless of your sexuality. This is mainly for anyone who has ever considered touching their butthole, pleasuring it, asking their partner to, but felt concerned that maybe it means something else “Maybe I’m gay…”
We can share the sexy and nurturing experience of stroking our cocks wherever we are, and that feels great! To be honest, it’s pretty amazing! It gives me strength and confidence and frees me to express my true feelings because I can actually see men all around the world doing the same thing. What could be more affirming to our masculinity but sharing one the most pleasurable experiences that is uniquely our own?
This months Cock Meditation from Sexologist, Jallen Rix is a "Guided Visualization.” This genre of meditation takes the listener on an adventure - a kind of storytelling that the listener gets to imagine themselves within the experience. Since much of the visualization is left up to the listener’s fertile imagination, these kinds of meditations can become particularly personal and customized.
Here is an opportunity to identify and feel great about the positive aspects of your masculinity in the accepting and nurturing presence of other like-hearted men, without competition, comparison or shame. There’s just something absolutely unique about being affirmed of your masculinity BY OTHER MEN, but in our culture these rituals have been upstaged by competition, performance, humiliation, fear of failure, bullying, hazing, and violence, to name a few. It doesn’t sound all that affirming or fun, does it?
When you’re feeling “less than,” one of the most immediate ways to counter those messages is to do what really, deeply nurtures you. List out the things that make your heart absolutely blossom – and when Valentine’s Day comes around, do one or more of these exquisite things. And don’t forget self-pleasuring. After all, masturbation is one of the most intimate and loving acts that you can do with the one you know the best.
Cock meditation uses BOTH our body and our mind to generate wholeness, deep satisfaction, and just some good ol’ sexy fun.