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Ask Dr. Bate: Blue Balls and Messy Lube

Recently, however, I feel like my nuts are so fucking sore after just a few hours of masturbation instead of the all-night/all-day bate sessions of my youth (I’m nearing 40). I don’t know if I need to relieve my blue balls sooner or if there’s some other remedy/trick you recommend. Or even if this could signal a serious health issue. What can I do? What do you recommend?

Mindful Masturbation Techniques: Episode 5

The Erogenous Body
To pursue excellence as a male masturbator, you not only want to arouse your entire body but also to invite every part of your genital and pelvic region to participate in generating those ecstatic waves that flood your entire being with bliss. Plus, there’s nothing wrong with a lot of focus on the penis, as that’s where so much sensation comes from. Still, your entire body can be viewed as an erogenous zone.

Mindful Masturbation Techniques: Episode 4

Your masturbation practice, no matter how great, can intensify simply by getting creative: try new masturbation techniques, deliberately shift your focus, seek out the undiscovered country of the Masturbatory Frontier! We all get into habits, and habits are not entirely bad, still in the realm of excellence among male masturbators, it’s always good to periodically break the mold.

Mindful Masturbation Techniques: Episode 3

You can stroke yourself high-and-higher indefinitely, which can go far beyond what guys sometimes call edging, allowing the intense penis pleasure to radiate through your entire body and light up every one of your trillions of cells. When you’ve got a great bate going, get your body moving: walk around and keep masturbating, even do knee-bends and keep masturbating. Remind yourself to take a DEEP belly breath while you masturbate! It’s such a sweet, sweet ride, both endless and limitless!

You Can Train Your Penis

You can train your penis to give you new levels of pleasure that you have never experienced before, and the amazing thing is that your penis can actually learn! Many of the excellent and dedicated masturbators at our beloved Bateworld know this from experience—there is no limit to how far your bate can take you.

Mindful Masturbation Techniques: Episode 2

Male masturbation is always a good thing, and it is the most common sexual experience on the planet. The only possible dark side comes if a masturbator reinforces guilt or shame in the process; the best way to get rid of those factors is to burn them out with extreme, high-quality sessions of physical self-love. The surrender to pure penile pleasure can help to make you a better man.

Ask Dr. Bate: Sneezing, Sexual Fluidity, And Arousal

Often times over the years I find that when I view an erotic photo I will sneeze uncontrollably right out of the blue. I've never heard of anyone else having this happen to them. It isn't chronic, but it does happen frequently. Have you heard of this happening to others?

The Truth About The Male Orgasm Part 1: It’s Not What You Think

We are taught that as men we build to an orgasm, ejaculate and then require a refractory period before we can reach those heights again. Our erections go soft and though we may still remain aroused, we are physically incapable of shooting sperm or making our penises spasm with pleasure unless we wait. For some that wait time is minutes, for others it’s hours or even days. Though we’ve come to accept this as a normal part of the male sexual response, I know I speak for all of us when I say that however long that wait time is, it’s too long!