How Can I Stretch My Hole Safely?
QUESTION: I have a very tight asshole. I finger it and can slip small objects in to use as a dildo. But I can’t get anything bigger inside. I’m afraid to force anything bigger in and tear something. How can I safely stretch my hole? I use lube… any suggestions???
RESPONSE: As you’ve learned, anal insertion isn’t as easy as it looks in most of the porn videos, where in reality the guys
The Lowdown on Cowper’s Gland Fluid
QUESTION: I’m a huge pre-cum fan, and it makes a great natural lube. But I don’t ooze a lot of it, and not all that often. What causes different guys to pre-cum more or less? Is there any way to increase the amount of pre-cum I ooze?
RESPONSE: The truth is that there’s a wide range of how much pre-cum guys ooze while aroused and masturbating, from none ever, to almost a constant fountain for a small number of men. The difference seems to be mostly genetic; however,
How to Handle The Post-Bate Munchies
Question: When I finish bating, I have a sudden craving for chocolate. Is it normal to crave something after finishing?
Response: Part of my mission to encourage male masturbators is to urge you to consider your self-pleasure as part of a healthy practice of trying to love yourself better and better every day.
Assturbation With A Tight Anus
Question: I have a very tight asshole. I finger it and can slip small objects into it for use as a dildo. But I can’t get anything bigger inside. I’m afraid to force anything bigger in and tear something. How can I safely stretch my hole? I use lube… any suggestions???
To edge your penis is very common for masturbators. Here is how you can prolong your bate and and have longer sessions. It can even help you with partner play.
To Lube or Not to Lube?
QUESTION:I typically masturbate without lube or lotion because I sit at the computer to chat, flip through porn, or have phone sex. I am worried that my penis is getting damaged due to dry skin, but I don’t want to get my computer/phone covered in lube. Any thoughts on this?
Edging and ejaculation certainly has it's pros. Can you edge too long? Is it harmful to your prostate if you're not ejaculating regularly?
Insights from a bating sexologist, Dr. Jallen Rix (hand2rod)
"You don't just masturbate... you display, you exhibit your sexuality as much for the viewer's pleasure as your own... it pleasures you to masturbate for us... you look at the camera as if watching us watching you as you entertain us with your naked self-pleasure. It's that desire to be enjoyed sexually by others that I find so erotic about you. xxx"
Many men in today’s world (sometimes myself included) enjoy masturbating to porn on the Internet, which can prove highly arousing and provide great bate fuel. In my opinion, porn is sacred, as it shares an extremely important part of our lives that most mainstream cultures still frown upon and often seek to keep hidden.
Endings and Beginnings
All of us at BateWorld and The BatorBlog want to thank Garland and Toby for their insightful and thought-provoking articles for The BatorBlog's Dr. Bate column. After two years of monthly articles, they'll now be moving on to pursue their calling in private practice and group workshops, and we all want to wish them the best.
Sometimes when I ejaculate in the presence of another man or men, my screams and shouts of ecstatic release with the orgasm are so loud that I’ve actually frightened a few guys! And even when I choose not to ejaculate, I can groan and growl alarmingly
A Good Cumming Frequency
Do you have any specific advice around how frequently to cum when you're able to edge for an hour or so a day without ejaculating? I can go for a month or so like that but I'm not sure it's a healthy way to go.
