VICE reached out to several people who identify as solosexual, some of whom are active members of the BateWorld community: BeastlyBator, WildHorse100, and Saboteur.
“I’m a Solosexual. I Prefer Masturbation to Partnered Sex” by VICE contributor Mark Hay
“Conceptually, it’s easy to define solosexuality: A strong or exclusive preference for masturbation over any other form of sex.”
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“Since the early 2010s, a few vibrant hubs of solosexual community and advocacy have coalesced on platforms like Reddit, Discord, and BateWorld, “the premier online men’s masturbation community,” and via in-person masturbation clubs in major cities across the world. (While many prominent groups, like those on BateWorld, are entirely male, there are also female solosexuals.)“
“Since 2015, a handful of solosexuals have shared personal accounts of their intimate lives to help broaden and deepen understandings of the identity—such as BeastlyBator and M.B. Timothy, who’re active on BateWorld, or Jason Armstrong, who published the book Solosexuality: Portrait of a Masturbator (part memoir and part history of solosexuality) in 2016.
But accounts of navigating solosexuality, especially alongside relationships, are still rare in mainstream media outlets. To help bring more visibility to the complex and diverse realities of this distinct sexual identity, VICE spoke to Aki, a young solosexual guy, about how he discovered his solosexuality, what solosexual intimacy looks like for him, and how it factors into his relationship.”
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Thank you for the great article. I am a solosexual, and at times have enjoyed sex with others but I always felt as though I was in a performance. Solo sex is for me and I can please myself any way I like, and I don’t have the added pressure of trying to figure someones like and dislikes. The added pressure was of mine own making I might add.
I’m a solosexual. I like sex with other people every now and then, even my husband but I prefer to masterbate over anything. I can jerk off the way I like there is a hole cam community of hot guys jerking off and that excitement is for me.
Iam a solosexual as well I have had partnered sex in the past, but for me masturbation is by far more pleasurable to me than partnered sex ever was
Gay and straight can be very hot and wantable when everything clicks. But that is the exception. Working within what the other person likes and doesn’t like is tiresome after a whole, in fact very often. Looking back I think I really did prefer more and more my own sexual fantasy space. Alwyas loved porn and the term pornosexual is related certainly.
Every pic or vid is fine tuned to your taste, a constant stream of hottest porn (for you), a bit of weed and poppers and put on some bate pumping music (Soundcloud) ….so goodand as long as you want. Oh yeah I’m a pornosexual, solosexual fully now. I can resee the porn in my imagination well too. Anytime I want.
Since I was young I have been a solosexual, I always called it having sex with myself or making love to myself, I love my penis. Some of my favorite times masturbating have been outside, sadly I don’t have a place I can do that anymore. I do enjoy porn, women and men, and I really like watching men masturbate. I don’t like to cam but I would like to masturbate with someone in person or just watch them.
I love jacking off and driving. In the summer I drive my Jeep 3-4 times a week up to Stevens Pass ( in Washington State ). I pull over in Sultan, get completely nude and get back on the road. My Jeep has a 4 inch lift and big tires so no one can see what I’m doing. The hot sun feels great on my naked body. I will pull over once I get towards the top and hit my D.M.T. pen and jack off for an hour or so. Just me myself and I. O.M.G. I can’t believe how much it makes me come. Next time you are all alone in your car or truck and have time on your hand take a drive get naked and jack off.
Hi, I have only tried car wanking once. I stopped at some lights and just for the sake of it, I unzipped and pulled out my cock. I couldn’t believe how fast I got hard. I got so stiff that I couldn’t get it back in. I had to pull in and come one of the biggest loads I’ve ever managed. I haven’t done it again because the clean up afterwards isn’t easy in the driving seat.