New Book Release THE 24HR MASTURBATION MASTER by BW Member Saboteur

Bateworld member and author Saboteur releases his new book THE 24HR MASTURBATION MASTER this week. He writes, “The aim of this book is to share my experience with you and help you be a confident and expert masturbator in 24 hours.” Writing under his name M.B. Timothy, Saboteur does just that in his short guide. His techniques and exercises to help you masturbate better, as he imparts all that is important to make your masturbation mind-blowing in just a single day. 

The Bator Blog has the first and exclusive extract from his book, a section on HOW TO RECEIVE A HANDJOB.

How to Receive a Handjob

Receiving a handjob might appear rather straightforward, wouldn’t you think? You take your hard dick out and let someone else palm you off. Well, wrong. Receiving a handjob requires more of you, especially if you, and also the person giving the handjob, wish to derive maximum pleasure from it.

Put it this way, if a handjob is boring, it’s because you haven’t worked out where the lines of power run.

Let’s explore those power dynamics. In penetrative sex, there is the active and the passive partner. The top and the bottom, if you will. The question of who is in control is the question of who holds power? It is down to the individuals. You can have power bottoms or power tops, submissive bottoms and submissive tops. Great penetrative sex allows people to be who they want to be. It is predicated on the ability to communicate that, which may or may not be verbal.

Giving and receiving handjobs is no different. For them to work at their best, both partners need to negotiate power and establish what kind of role they want to play. In a handjob, the man whose dick is being masturbated is the alpha. He’s the one with his hard dick on display. The one doing the masturbating is therefore the beta right? Second in command. Perhaps. But tie that alpha to a chair and give power to the beta to decide when (or if) that alpha gets to cum and the delineation of who is really “top” and who is the “bottom” gets deliciously blurred. 

The top alpha. An unrestrained man with his hard dick out proudly. He’s not going to touch his own dick. That’s what he needs his submissive beta for. That top alpha is going to control how long this handjob lasts. That top alpha will communicate his preference for the intensity, position and speed at which his big hard dick gets masturbated.

Be a better top alpha – reward your beta with moans of pleasure, and affirmations. Command them. Let that beta suck on your nipple or huff your pits. Tell them the places to touch. Chastise them if they do it wrong. Cum when you’re ready, and if your beta wants to lick up the mess, order them to.

The submissive alpha. A restrained man is erect, possibly by accident. He doesn’t wish to be hard in front of others, or edged. This man would love to masturbate to orgasm but he can’t. His hands are tied. Here the dominant beta has the control. He will keep his alpha erect as long as it pleases him, the masturbator. He will edge that exposed penis in a way which suits him. The submissive alpha may have to beg to be allowed to orgasm.

Be a better submissive alpha – writhe against your restraint. When your beta isn’t touching you, urge them to. Submit to your beta’s touch. When they rub you, show pleasure. When they deny you, show pain. Beg to cum. Whimper when told no.

The submissive beta. This beta just wants to please. This beta will lovingly follow his alpha’s lead, masturbating by instruction.  A submissive beta will never make his alpha cum until the alpha is ready. If the submissive triggers the alpha’s orgasm without being instructed to, they would be mortified. They will often apologise and beg for an opportunity to make it up to the alpha.

Be a better submissive beta – be in no hurry. Your alpha’s penis is why you’re here. Pleasure him at his instruction. Check in with him. Show him you live for his body and his penis. Do it right and you’ll get a sticky treat.

The dominant beta. This man loves to feel a powerful dick in his palm. They please that dick only because it pleases them. This kind of beta might enjoy his alpha squirming. He will rub his alpha’s dick in the way which he wants. Some dominant betas want cum. They rub their alphas fast, bringing them to sticky orgasm. Other dominant betas want to deny their alphas cum. Sometimes cum won’t stop betas either. They might provide some post-orgasm torture, go hunting for a second milking or simply enjoy the alpha trying unsuccessfully to be freed from his dominant grip.

Be a better dominant beta – toy with your alpha’s pleasure and pain. Give pleasure and then take it away. Drive your alpha crazy. Enjoy the pleasure but revel in the frustration. Make them beg for release. Don’t give it to them immediately. When he orgasms is your choice. What happens next is also your choice.

I am an alpha. When you have a handsome dick like mine, there is no real choice. It’s on display. I have been both tied up and powerless, and I have held sub betas to my hairy chest and coached them in how to give me a handjob. I have met all kinds of betas in my time. I made one sweat through a two hour handjob of my dick. Literally pouring with sweat, he was. Another suckled lovingly on my nipple as he masturbated me in perfect sync with my requests. Another again refused to follow my lead, squeezing my balls, kneading my taint, ruining my orgasms. I stayed fully erect throughout all, because that was my role. 

So decide. Who do you want to be in this exchange? 

This was an extract from THE 24HR MASTURBATION MASTER, a new book by author and Bateworld member, M.B. Timothy (Saboteur). This new book is available at introductory pricing as eBook and Paperback for a limited time.

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