For any of you who haven’t yet explored getting verbal, let’s see if I can get you started.
If you look through the most popular videos posted by users on BateWorld over the years, what do you think they have in common? No, they’re not the ones with unbelievably massive cumshots, not the ones showcasing the biggest dicks or the most perfect abs, or even the always HAF buddy bate sessions. Yes, those things make us beat our boners, but the clips spilling the most sperm are where all types of guys are getting verbal.
Whether it’s talking or moaning or grunting, making some noise can be an important part of getting deeper into your bate.
For any of you who haven’t yet explored getting verbal, let’s see if I can get you started.
VERBAL, MOANING MASTURBATORS
If you’re the silent type, start slow. Take a deep breath; when you exhale, let out a moan. Now do it again, but a little bit louder. It might feel silly at first, but think about it: When you hear a guy moaning in the porn you’re watching, it signals how deeply he’s feeling his pleasure.
Knowing that he’s feeling so good makes you feel good too. It becomes something you’re sharing. So get in the habit of deep breathing and moaning a bit on your exhales. It will lead to deeper bating.
FUCK YEAH!
In both VidChat and porn, the most common words you hear guys saying are “Fuck yeah!” So let’s start there. Are you bating now? Stare at your greased up cock and instead of letting out a moan, say “Fuck yeah!” Celebrate your manhood and your ability to self-pleasure out loud. Acknowledge that you’re taking advantage of one of the luxuries your penis affords you whenever you want it. Fuck yeah, bator!
FEELS SO GOOD, DUDE
I’ll never forget a recent three-way bate date I had at my place. We’d been at it a while, deep in our dicks, when one buddy sprawled out on the bed, threw his head back, closed his eyes while he kept stroking, and yelled out, “It feels so fucking good, dudes!” I think about that moment all the time because it was so incredibly hot not just to see how he was feeling but to hear it. So say it out loud with me: “It feels so fucking good!”
WHAT’S SO FUNNY?
You smile and laugh when you do other fun activities, right? So don’t forget that bating is something you’re doing for fun. Sex doesn’t have to be so serious all the time. So feel free to loosen up and laugh out loud. A laugh can be just as hot as a moan. And admitting that sitting around pounding your pud is in essence sort of comical can be liberating too. Give it a try.
TRIGGER WORDS
Here’s where your personal taste will come into play. What words make your dong leak, either to say out loud or to hear spoken by someone else? For me, when I’m in the zone of a long edging session, I will often repeat “I love masturbating!” or “I love my penis!” The words “penis” and “masturbate” never fail to make my briefs bulge.
In a recent Bator Training Series vid about getting verbal on BW, master bator BigStiffy says he personally stays away from those particular words because he finds them too clinical. He prefers to talk about his “big dick,” and to verbalize fantasies or relive hot experiences he’s had out loud. If you watch his video, you’ll be a verbal convert, trust me!
The biggest advice from BigStiffy’s video and from me is to let yourself go. Experiment. If you’re masturbating and you want to try something new, there’s no reason to be embarrassed, so let it rip. Release your inhibitions and see where you end up. You might be surprised by what you learn about yourself and by what turns you on.
GO DEEPER
If you’re ready to further explore your love of verbal bate, there’s lots to find. Some simple searching on audio sites like SoundCloud will find you some “bate tunes.” There are active “phone-bone” lines where guys are talking while beating their meat. And of course there’s always the amazing BW video chat.
Why not make yourself the most popular guy in the room by making some noise?
Written by BateWorld member Digg
Oh the power of our sounds, our most personal and sensual sounds. Its as if our cock as ears. When we can openly share our signature sounds of sexual pleasure, the moans, the groans, the deeper breathing. The sounds we make while stroking and preparing ourselves for that magical orgasmic moment – we’re all here for.
Yes, trigger may vary with each bator but I think we all have some. I often coach others off on skype using my mic along my sounds and words of encouragment. My skype nick is the same as my user name.
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I love to masturbate with others watching and joining in
I do too David I love to hear another guy masturbating. Its such a turn on i can hardly contain myself before i am blowing my cum everywhere . lets all listen to each other moan and bate.
For the first 35 years of my sexual life, verbal was limited to ‘fuck’, ‘yeah’ and ‘hot’, and NEVER when I was masturbating. That act was meant to be done in silence. BORRRING!
But once I became a real bator though (thanks to BW) I just naturally started to verbalize. Now it’s the thing that most guys comment on about me (and the fact that I like to “go deep”).
I love to coach and I’ve found each guy is different in terms of what they like to hear, or say. Some like really technical terms, like corona and frenulum. Others want to have it referred to as “he” and the language focuses around that. Others want specific directions. All of it is wonderful.
Verbal is just one more way to truly satisfy a man. 🙂
did you say Coach? I would love to have a bate coach, HMU if interested i really need someone.
I was rarely verbal throughout the first 45 years of my sexual life, other than the usual ‘oh fuck’, ‘ya baby’, and lots of grunting and groaning.
a friend a few years back used to tie me up and give me serious ball torture to the point i’d be screaming. i loved it. this, i suppose, was the first shift in my expressive patterns. then after having found BW, it further opened up my sense of adventure.
i have now become very verbal… to the point that guys comment on my expressive skills and even are attracted to me because of it. when i do it, i love how it fuels a guys bate, so coaching has become the next level of verbal.
the key to good verbal is reading your partner, which results in a level of tone, cadence, the use of trigger words, making sure there’s variety and sometimes adding a little bit of fantasy wording for good measure. 😉
for me, verbal adds an intense layer onto what is already an intensely sexual act: masturbating.
Most men could use a coach. We have been taught to keep masturbating to our selves.
I know I could use a coach. HMU if you can coach an older dog new tricks.
Love this article !!! Thank you fir sharing.