“Many men are curious to attend their local jackoff clubs but can’t get past the nerves. So I thought I’d share some tips…”
Just before the pandemic, I was having an excellent Sunday morning—naked in my favorite bate spot, masturbating while messaging with some BateWorld pals. What could be better?
As I kept on with the up and down, a BW bud asked me if I’d ever been to New York Jacks, a well-known jack-off club that meets twice a week. I replied that I’d always wanted to go, but I was too nervous. Before I could say “masturbate” three times fast, we’d agreed to meet outside the venue in a few hours so we could go in together.
Many men are curious to attend their local jackoff clubs but can’t get past the nerves. So I thought I’d share some tips in hopes that I can encourage you to take the plunge and get boner-y with your neighborhood bators.
BE ON TIME
While it’s cool to be fashionably late to most parties, be on time to this one.
For this Sunday afternoon party, the majority of the guys showed up early and waited in line to get inside. Now imagine being in line with about 30 other dudes, all clothed but whom you are about to see completely naked and masturbating. Need I say I found this line ridiculously hot? From a practical standpoint too, the action starts immediately and you don’t want to show up late to find that you’ve missed half the penises that were there getting stroked just a short time ago.
WHAT DO I DO WITH MY CLOTHES?
Once inside, I was greeted by two friendly jockstrap-clad men who collected my entry fee. Once I paid up, I took off all of my clothes and handed them over to the well-organized clothes check. You’ll keep your shoes on, so choose a pair that you don’t mind getting covered in cum. I chose to wear some old sneakers and a backwards baseball cap. I think it was the first time I’d ever worn just those two items and nothing else, and I felt sexy as fuck!
I’M NAKED AND I’M INSIDE, NOW WHAT?
There were Albolene tubs and rolls of paper towels aplenty. There was a restroom, and a cleanup station with some warm towels—a nice touch! There were comfy chairs in case you wanted to sit back and have all the standing masturbator penises be at face level. But remember, this is a bate party, and there are rules. No penis penetration of any kind. Kissing and touching is allowed, and I was lucky enough to connect strongly with another bator so we could make out a bit while stroking, but mostly this is a jackoff party. So jack off!
STOP WORRYING AND ENJOY IT
The most common concerns: What kinds of guys will be there? And what will happen if I run into someone I know?
At the time of this event, I’d gotten a little thick in the middle and I was self-conscious about it. But one huge thing I’ve learned from my BateWorld friends is that the bate community is vast and it’s also incredibly body positive. This party was no exception.
There were about 50 guys in total. Guys were all ages, all colors, all dick sizes. There were twinks, there were daddies, there were chubs, there were gym Adonises. And we were all masturbating our penises together and it was thrilling. Guys moved around the room in small groups and bigger groups, but it never fell down lines of age/weight/race/dick size.
I did not run into anyone I know, but if this is your worry: Ask yourself what would happen if you did? The person you are seeing is at the same party. So rather than see it as something you both would feel embarrassed about, isn’t it something you would now share? The crowd is big enough that you can avoid getting too intimate regardless, so I say cross this off your worry list and enjoy yourself.
STILL NERVOUS?
Now that we bators are vaccinated and things are opening back up, I can’t wait to get back to my first post-pandemic bate party. If you’re still nervous, I’ll happily meet you outside so we can go in together.
Written by BW member Digg
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Excellent advice for JO club newcomers!
Here is an addendum, a few differences regarding Rain City Jacks in Seattle, currently the most active club on the West Coast:
1) BE ON TIME
Yes! This is universal to all JO clubs. Rain City Jacks (RCJ) welcomes first-timers to check in 15 minutes BEFORE our events start. We have an enrollment form to complete and a new member orientation session before joining the party, so it helps to not only show up right at opening time, but a little earlier.
2) LOCKERS INSTEAD OF CLOTHES CHECK
RCJ has 100 day lockers for members to use while playing rather than attended clothes check, which gives everyone access to their own stuff without somebody acting as a gatekeeper. Both systems work. This is just how we do things. We actually have a separate space in the basement which we use as a locker room. We also supply loaner locks for anybody who doesn’t have their own (we recommend bringing your own).
3) NEW MEMBER ORIENTATION
The most obvious difference between RCJ and every other club is our New Member Orientation sessions. We require every first-timer to sit with other newbies as a long-time member runs them through our rules and a little Consent 101, clarifying the rules, emphasizing the important parts and giving nerves a chance to settle a bit before getting naked. Over the 16 years we’ve been doing orientation, we’ve gotten nothing but enthusiastically positive responses to it. It really doesn’t make the club more human, reassures everyone that nothing bad is going to happen and helps ease the entry into what is usually a guy’s very first experience with “big group” masturbation.
4) EVERYONE’S NERVOUS AT FIRST
No matter how cool a first-timer seems on the outside, it’s become really clear that everybody feels nervous at first. It is entirely normal and natural. It’s a new thing in a lot of ways so of course you’ll be nervous! What’s also true is the nerves transform into sexual excitement within minutes of the event’s start.
5) NOTHING BAD HAPPENS
That’s all. Nothing bad is going to happen.
This is great, Paul. Thanks for including this here.
Thanks for giving us a better picture. Have to make it up to NYC soon.
How do I find a jackoff club near me. I live in Philadelphia and really want to try this. I’m a 21 year old gay male.
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Philly has a jack club but its virtual right now. Google it.
Hey Chris, I’d love to talk about starting a non-virtual one
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I live in Australia. Do you have members in Australia.
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What is and is not acceptable behavior. On a one-to-one basis with friends, we have had mutual masturbation as well as cock sucking. Is cocky sucking acceptable behavior?
Also, is there a jo club near me? I live in North Richland Hills, zip code 76180.
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I’m straight but went to one. Why? Because I love the thrill of being naked and sexual in public. It was that simple. I was definitely nervous. Chugged a beer around the corner while waiting for the doors to open. But after stripping down in the room with others around, even if only guys, was thrilling. I did sort of sit in the corner at first… and some guy did come over and start stroking me… that was weird at first. But it started to feel great, enough that I edged and asked him to stop. I also stroked two other guys, kind of because I felt like it was polite to,do when they gestured they wanted it. Another guys cock feels weird to me, strangely soft skin. In the end, I stood aside and got myself off. I came out of there more certain in my straightness than ever, but still really loved the thrill of getting naked and hard with willing spectators around. That might draw me to try it again. Though I’d rather find a place that’s mixed.
Any JO Clubs in Eastern Washington?! I’m 4 hours from Seattle.
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