This post was originally published on June 24, 2016 and updated on June 2, 2019.
A brotherhood, according to Google definitions, is “an association, society, or community of people linked by a common interest, religion, or trade.” It also states that it’s any relationship between brothers; a camaraderie, fellowship or a fraternity, if you will. I immediately think of Freemasons (or other practicing societies), college fraternities, sports teams/leagues or any other sort of group linked and brought together by a common entity.
Bators often refer to and greet each other as brothers. They form, in a very real sense, a brotherhood founded on the practice and art of masturbation. Online communities like Bateworld provide the common bator a safe and open environment where they can explore, talk about, and share their fondness for masturbation with like minded men. In addition to the camaraderie and reassurance, many men find it more exciting to bate with other men.
Modern technology allows us to reach out globally to our fellow humans and share our life experiences in ways that were impossible just several years back. We are able to create “real-life”, albeit virtual, communities. Bateworlds established community online allows us to get up close and personal with others. We can chat live, send mail, write and reply to blogs, upload and share photos and video of our experience. Furthermore, we can personalize the Bateworld communal brotherhood by choosing to communicate with members via skype, through email, or other means of communication. It’s a Matryoshka nesting doll of endless possibilities.
Under the umbrella that is this entire community, common interest groups play a large part in this as well. Forming brotherhoods based on these common interests. Having the ability to join these groups or even create your own are a beginning and a welcoming into a new place where you will find other men who understand you and share this interest; a brotherhood. What did you come here for? Does something specific interest you, turn you on? Fetish? Edging? Gooning? BDSM? Find Local Bators by using the Bateworld advanced search. Find guys in your very location, your hometown, and create an in-person group if you desire, or take part in one that already exists (Jack Off Clubs).
Masturbating doesn’t have to be a “lonely” practice. You might find yourself indulging in porn, using your imagination to get yourself off, creating scenarios while you plow your fleshlight or use a prostate massager to stimulate that p-spot for the first time. Maybe you like wearing a cock ring, into cupping your nipples, using albolene or into MFM, DP. You’ve probably wondered if anyone else was into these same things and it’s a beautiful thing being able to reach out, come here and find your brothers. It’s a support group and a fun as hell group. Brotherhood is important on and off the web no matter the topic of interest. Masturbation is a personal experience, sure, as is all life, but it can be shared and explored with others alike.
Have you found your brotherhood?
Head on over to Bateworld.com and FIND LOCAL BATORS – create your brotherhood today!
This is all so true I know my life of masturbation has been a lot better cent i found BW and have brothers to share with.
The amazing variety of penises, the astonishingly handsome raw beauty of bared erect virility among us all… so glad to be a male with a hard cock, and very, VERY grateful for what you have organized and perfected here! This safe place where we, as MEN, are able to come together as our own tribe of pleasure-loving, cock-sharing individuals, each of us able to shed politics, religions, and clothing, to reveal our selves as we are in reality. We are vulnerable and we are strong, we have hearts and we have dongs, we are individuals and we are friends! Show it all off, brothers of all ages, be proud of what you have been through, and be open to what you haven’t yet too, Make a new buddy and share a secret, then celebrate being a dude and finding a bro, and THEN spurt some seed, man, because THAT is what you are built to DO! Empty your balls and make some more, it will be the best thing you do all day.
SOOO well said, Jakob! I have long felt that group sex and mutual masturbation holds the key to world peace
I couldn’t agree with you more.
And even if it doesn’t — what’s the harm in trying?
Dude that made me so horny
I am 68 and love to j/o by myself and with other mature guys in a circle jerk. Good male bonding!
Hey Mike, Committed solosexual and love my mature bators, I go deep and always feel sensual and alilve, great to say hi.
Are there any local beaters in buffalo, by area to get together with
Hey Bud! You should go to BateWorld.com where folks post these kinds of questions all the time.
I think that masturbation is an own sexual orientation.
Just as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual or the like?
For me, masturbation is the most pleasant and important sexual activity. Though I am married. I am a masturbant and masturbate rather than the I have sex.
I am 70 years old and masturbate regularly since my 9th year, which means daily. (For many years I have regularly masturbated 3 times a day.) That is 62 years. In this time I masturbated about 27 367 times. Even now I masturbieren on average 2.7 times a week.
I like to masturbate alone, which is about the orgasm or the sperm emptying.
For masturbation, I need no means to get a sexual arousal.
My addiction is the masturbation in itself and my penis, which I optimally modified to masturbation (frenulectomy, meatotomy).
But, of course, masturbation is an addiction, but an addiction that benefits health. The problem is that doctors (urologists) are not particularly well versed in the phenomenon of long-term masturbation. Apparently, this is not discussed in education. But it is clear that physiological and pathological changes (which are not necessarily negative) must occur through decades of almost daily masturbation. As you know, regular masturbation prevents even the risk of prostate cancer.
Jagtstein’s 13October2016 bio, above, resonates w/ my own: Whereas, I too began my Masturbatory-path when I was 9 !! I.e., when I was totally UNconscious of whatever “s e x” was touted as being about; presuming Jagtstein knew not much more- certainly not from motivated experience… THEE point being, that when ‘you’ beCUM multiorgasmic via Masturbation at age 9 — ‘THAT should T E L L ya somethin’, Doctor Beter’ !!! Pre-pubescent Maturbatory multiOganismus is probably (?) prima facie preventative remediation for the ADvertised wave of P.E./E.D. ‘issues’ all the rage thru-out the realm ; & he-who-would-be-king, ol’ Trumpster is ontologically anti-Accessibly Affordable HeathCare.SOO, if a luved one has such ‘issues’ , practice medicine w/out a sanction— prescribe The rite of ‘our’ SecretSociety’ : M A S T U R B A T E MINDFULLY & OFTEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Happy Hallows Eve,31Oct2018 …
i agree, masturbation really is meant to be a “team sport” and can be teamed up in a number of ways. And doesn’t really matter how we label ourselves, strt, gay, bi or whatever we all share the need for sexual pleasuring. We all need IT. Websites like BW make a great place to share our interests and connect with others either for reals or just for cyber – like I do.
I pretty much agree with the above comments. I, too, have been masturbating daily since age 9. I am 63 and still masturbate almost daily!! I enjoy this sport so much!! Of course, albeit known, most males do not actually have real ejaculations until about age 14. Man, how many remember that first time you came?!! I do and always will. Felt like I died and went to Heaven!! Lol !!! I still enjoy bating and cumming!
Omg, yes, I’m guessing many here do remember their very first time we came. It’s one of those moments we remember as one of perhaps many amazing life moments we experience. I was using a condom at the time, so there’s that visual etched into my memory book. As well as those incredible moments of release, pleasure, release, pleasure that ebbed and flowed and then stopped.
As for “real ejaculations”until 14, I really think that just varies with every bator. And not sure if there’s really an official age when that (oh so memorable life skills) moment takes place. Having chatted with lots of bators over the eons about their first cums that age might be closer to the 12-ish range. Would be interesting to know what any ‘official’ studies show.
Yeah, I had just turned 12 when I had my first wet cum. Woke up with a painful erection, so I took down my briefs and just admired my stiff boner, sticking out of a small bush of brown pubic hair. It was throbbing. I *barely* touched it, and I could feel it happening: I was going to ejaculate. I felt it deep in my taint and balls as the warm, runny sperm just shot out of my dick in huge arcs – at least 4 or 5 ropes. This was probably the most important day of my life. Now that I could shoot nut, I became a serious bator. This was 36 years ago.
Has anyone had the same experience as I had? I must have been about six or seven when I had my first pleasurable “feeling” that I now know was an orgasm. I was climbing up the upright pole of a jungle gym in the playground, when this delicious feeling emanating from my groin area made me hold on tight to the top of the pole whilst I enjoyed the sensations. I quickly learned that I could achieve the pleasure whenever I wanted to. The practice continued on into my teens, when shock, horror I “wet” myself one day. That’s was when I was beginning to hear stories of my mates about stroking cock and enjoying pleasures. So one evening I stroked to my very first wanking orgasm, and the “wet” mess that I had now known as a cumshot. I have just turned sixty and happy to say STILL enjoying my pleasures and hoping to meet up for sharing the Brotherhood. Thanks to bateworld for making the connections.
For me, sexual activity is masturbation.
I mean that masturbation is a basic need like eating, drinking and breathing.
And besides, the masturbation is also fun. I’ve been masturbating almost every day for 63 years now and I still enjoy it.
In addition, the masturbation has the advantage that you can masturbate with not quite erect penis. Because with the erection I have a problem since my age of 62 years. I am now 72 years old. I’m glad to be in such a big company of masturbators.
I masturbate regularly since I was 9 years old. (For many years I masturbated regularly 3 times a day.) That’s 63 years. During this time I masturbated about 27 532 times. Even now I masturbate on average 1.4 times a week. That’s why I got the exact numbers because I kept a sex diary out of interest. I tried to get along (masturbating) without masturbation at the age of 23, 21 days I endured, it was hell. I kept it exactly 21 days, experiencing my 1st and only nocturnal pollution.
By the way: I have not found health problems until today. So do not worry.
I also prefer masturbating as I have sex.
Hi bud,
I love your honest story and find that you can share it is so nice, we are all human and things change. What doesnt change is how we love masturbation whether you are hard or now, its within ourselves to feel good and to share. Love to say hi.
Your story is heartwarming and fun to read. You definitely, sincerely needed to masturbate as you have or couldn’t have kept it up over so many years. A deep seeded, strong urge and need for you. Love how you kept stats about your masturbation. Over those years you’ve ejaculated about 110 gallons, if you ejaculate about a tablespoon like me. That would fill a few bathtubs, all surging up and put of your erect cock with such intense pleasure. I hope you might masturbate more now than you are. I’ve read that many men over 50 report they are masturbating more now, these days, than decades ago when they were younger. The need has increased and so has the acceptance of it. We just all masturbate so much more now and I love it
masturbation has been the mainstream of my sexual interest all my life. as a boy we had many circle jerks. the other boys would talk of having real sex. even then i knew that i was already having real sex, with myself. i am now semi retired, live alone, almost always naked, and i spend hours each day watching solo vids of other guys jerking off. it is a very rewarding lifestyle. i love it
I have been masturbating since I was was about nine years old my two uncle’s who weren’t much older taught me how which led to other first time experiences. I loved thè feeling of excitement as my dad drove over for a sleepover and I knew we would spend the night naked and masturbating. It has become something I look forward too 4 nights a week as I have established four or five buds that come to my place and we spend the day together naked sharing stories, manscaping each other, showering together and of course jerking off and comparing size and how far each of us shoots. We video each other and have created our own jerk off album. We are recruiting new members. I love having a penis.
Forgive me, but I hope you realize how special it is that your family, especially the males — did not reject you. I was ostracized by my family at 13 — when I came out. A relationship like the one you describe with your father and uncles, is a fantasy to me. I turned out OK, but I always wonder what it would have been like if I’d had your experience.
As I sit here at my pc, totally nude, with a lubed up cock and openly masturbating on my web cam to about 80 viewers, I have to say how much I enjoy masturbating. I also love to expose the fact that I like to jerk off and like to openly talk about it with guys. To be able to meet up with a guy, get nude, pop boners and look at porn and openly masturbate to orgasm…
Great article – how lucky we are having beautiful penises and being able to share our pleasure together as a brotherhood and encourage eachother in our mindfully, lustfully, erotically. Solo or with brothers, it a joy being able to cam and share our lusty, beautiful cocks. Being able to support eachother in furthering our brotherly masculinity, natural lust and pleasure.
Hey guys, Just turned 60 and have been a bator my entire life. Looking for DL and NSA bate buds in the Tampa, Florida area. Need that sensual touch and play time. Like to bate for hours with Albolene which is my friend :).
Hey Scott,
Tampa bay bator here. Hit me up bud.
Chronic ‘bator in Honolulu. Looking for jo buds. Let’s wank together. EM me at [email protected]. Ready and waiting with peterinhand!
Man what a great group of Bators.. My Cousin taught me to jerk off when I was in 6th grade and a year later we were sucking each other off. he was in 9th grade and really hairy. My cock grew before my body caught up. I have nine now but in 6th grade, it was 7in. My cousin was so jealous. We jacked off All the time everywhere !! Sometimes if we were riding our bikes somewhere he would pull over behind a wall or something and he would say “let’s get our dicks out” which meant jack off or suck each other, I can still smell his sweaty nut sack, and taste the cum YUM. All thru high school I had jack-off buddies and 2 or 3 each year in college. I took some sort of P.E. class year just to look at cocks and steal smelly gym shorts. I have always jacked off once or twice a day since 6th grade. Since I retired and am on bateworld I jack off 2 to 5 times a day. LOVE LOVE hearing guys talk about their cocks and worshiping with the brown bottle. For a period of time, I would do a little coke and almost pull that fucker off. GEEEZZZ I love my cock and all of you guys’ cocks. Keep up the great bate Bros”
Hi Jim, so you had some experience with your schoolmates! A bunch of my mates used to stay in our class (they weren’t locked by teacher those years) and we played solo or together. I could be eleven or twelve then. One of us had a really big cock, like a mature man, and we were jealous of course. As far as I know, my mates were straight (I am gay, or better to say, homoflexible) so our talks circulated around girls, but we enjoyed mutual bating a lot.
Hi Jim,
thanks for your story. I had a few bate friends while in elementary school (I could have been eleven or twelve) and we liked to stay in our classroom after lessons for a bating session. One of my buddies had already a big dick of a mature man and of course we all were jealous. Now I don’t remember exactly but as far as I know some of the contacts, including mutual bating, lasted well into secondary school.
I think all my partners became straight, though we weren’t talking about girls but rather about our cocks. During one session some of us mentioned homosexuals. I asked what they do when playing? He said ‘They fuck each other in the asshole.’ ‘But it hurts!’ I’ve said. ‘I don’t know, but they apparently enjoy that’. I could not imagine myself practicing anal sex with guys at all… then I realized that I was gay, or better to say, homoflexible.
Looking for a bate bro in Jacksonville FL area
Bonjour,
J’habite à Paris, France;
Y-a-t-il un groupe en France ?
Merci de l’info
Ron
Although I consider myself str8 (if your into labeled) and enjoy intercourse with women, I grew up mutual masturbating with guys. Middle school days into highschool. I had given that up for years until I discovered BateWorld and other supportive sites. I found I still enjoyed masturbating with guys online and that encouraged me to connect with a few in person. It was so refreshing, supportive and rejuvenating and so satisfying.
It truly is a brotherhood. I could be open and honest about my intense need and they understood. I was surprised hlby how many shared my need and many even had far stronger more frequent needs than I. It helped me embrace masturbation even more and take it to new levels.
My brother taught me about my dick & jo. His dick is 2 inches bigger than mine which he always reminds me.
We usually jerk each other off and I love to watch him shoot. He loves eating his cum and a lot of times he’ll eat mine. I want to suck him off but I don’t want to freak him out…….I think he’d be cool with it.
Great comments and stories from all of you guys! I started masturbating when I was nine years old. I got the idea about doing it from watching a classmate play-acting like he was jacking off. One day while I was taking a bath, it just occurred to me to imitate what I had seen. The first time I had an orgasm, I honestly did not know what had happened. But, I continued to experiment and found a fantastic source of pleasure! I am so glad to be a man, to have a big uncut dick, to produce sperm, and to be empowered! I need to find a bro to bate with!