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Nature Cock Visualization

This months Cock Meditation from Sexologist, Jallen Rix is a "Guided Visualization.” This genre of meditation takes the listener on an adventure - a kind of storytelling that the listener gets to imagine themselves within the experience. Since much of the visualization is left up to the listener’s fertile imagination, these kinds of meditations can become particularly personal and customized.

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Why I Love Hard Nudity
For as long as I can remember I've had a penis. I didn't ask for one, and, really, I don't remember thinking too much about it for most of my first decade. I didn't even know what to call it then...

Contributors Wanted

We're looking for writers who can contribute articles about masturbation, the arts, activism, grooming, fashion, poetry or any other damn thing you can think of that might be of interest to our readers.

Hugh Hefner And The Playboy Legacy

Hugh Hefner deserves a huge amount of credit for mainstreaming sex in the modern age. He brought a dynamic and cross-platform lifestyle dimension into the lives of men, refining from the start his own vision of contemporary manhood that included personal style, living quarters, hot rides, literature and the arts (and of course, sexy ladies) as integral elements of the well-rounded man.

CONNECTING WITH THE EROTIC MASCULINE: A Workshop for Men

Here is an opportunity to identify and feel great about the positive aspects of your masculinity in the accepting and nurturing presence of other like-hearted men, without competition, comparison or shame. There’s just something absolutely unique about being affirmed of your masculinity BY OTHER MEN, but in our culture these rituals have been upstaged by competition, performance, humiliation, fear of failure, bullying, hazing, and violence, to name a few. It doesn’t sound all that affirming or fun, does it?

DAVID PEVSNER: A Conversation

I've said so often that one man's art is another man's porn, and everyone's line is different. Just showing your dick is porn to some. I don't know... I've been really enjoying expressing my sexual and artistic freedom in these photos, and the fact that some guys (and women!) seem to be inspired by a man of my age putting it all out there in a thoughtful way

JASON ARMSTRONG: Solosexual Q&A

But my second inspiration was BateWorld.com. Here, I met other men for whom this experience was just as revelatory. My book is dedicated in part to all the men who shared their sexual journeys with me. I realized that for so many of us, our sexuality is not peripheral to our experience of being human, but for many, it’s central. And I wanted to honor that — in myself and in the community that has sprung from BateWorld. I think if I had read my own book when I was 20 and starting my sexual life, I might have saved myself some trouble.

3 Tips to make your Valentine’s Great! (This year, let that “special someone” be you!)

When you’re feeling “less than,” one of the most immediate ways to counter those messages is to do what really, deeply nurtures you. List out the things that make your heart absolutely blossom – and when Valentine’s Day comes around, do one or more of these exquisite things. And don’t forget self-pleasuring. After all, masturbation is one of the most intimate and loving acts that you can do with the one you know the best.

The Most Self-Important List of The 21 Most Self-Important Movies of All Time

Over the years there've been a number of films that take themselves a little too seriously. The overall success of these films can be the difference between self-awareness and self-indulgence, and often it's hard to tell the difference. A Message Film can unintentionally become a Camp Masterpiece or, worse, Great Big Bomb, by default of its own over-baked seriousness. Sometimes, a movie just can't get out of its own way, and that's why we love them so.

RISE: the album

I wanted to create songs that weren't so much FOR masturbation as ABOUT masturbation and sexual revolution, trying to interpret sex energies into thumping, whooshing, pulsing waves of expressive sonic surprise. Call it music if you will. Dance naked if you must. Just get up and take this moment in your hands.