Ask The Batemaster: Comparing Size

Lets compare cocks shall we?

QUESTION: I’m pretty decent-sized down South, almost 7 inches. A bit over 5 inches around at the thickest part of the shaft. Am I really big enough in the penis department? Is there something I can do? What can I do when I see really horse-hung guys online, and feel like a shrimp? I’m past twenty, but my body still grows a bit in spurts.

RESPONSE: Consider this carefully, because almost every man on Earth is in the same situation: Some men’s penises will be a bit smaller than yours, some a bit larger. But examined very closely, your penis is never exactly the same size—it’s always changing at least on the micro-scale, it’s expanding or contracting.

Most men have at least some concern about the size of their own penis, in relation to those of other guys. This concern ranges from mild curiosity to seriously obsessed, and sometimes feeling terribly inadequate. Yours is probably a bit larger than the majority of guys—keep in mind, though, nobody is average. That’s just an idea.

Of course, the angle of perspective of looking down along your own torso to that thing between your legs makes it seem smaller because it’s half of your total body length away. As you’ve probably noticed, when you take a photo or video from down between your knees or below your feet, your penis looks a lot bigger: again, this is a matter of perspective. In person, other men’s penises often seem larger for the same reason, but it’s also a matter of attention, where your fascination goes.

Though it may sound like a cliché, the quality of pleasure your penis brings you definitely does matter more than its size. The truth is, penis size is not a contest, unless you want it to be. You are definitely wisest to appreciate the equipment you have. Despite many programs and some products that claim to increase your penis size, none of those really makes much lasting difference.

When you masturbate and/or engage in sexual stimulation of your penis frequently, and for long enough periods, the soft genital tissues are likely to hang fuller and more stretched even when you are not so aroused.

The largest penises may visually impress, but do not come without drawbacks. Some other guys may be intimidated by a really large penis, don’t know quite what to do with it. While the length and girth may impress, the whole thing may be challenged to lift upright into full erection. Smaller penises may be a lot of fun to handle, keep really hard and perky during arousal. Penis size does not have anything functional to do with the amount of pleasure the organ can generate for you. Appreciation for yourself, and confidence in your own appearance renders you more attractive to others, and to yourself. If you really consider carefully, attitude definitely matters much more than appearance alone.

No man is consistently sure of his own desirability and looks when faced with his own nakedness in a mirror reflection. Most of us view ourselves at some moments as quite attractive, and at other moments as somehow totally lacking. That’s all in the mind!

Look beyond comparisons of your own body with the bodies of other men. When you accept and admire yourself as you are, this also helps you admire other men and their endlessly varied penises. You might want to stop measuring anything and just enjoy!

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BRUCE P. GRETHER is the “BateMaster”. Mr. Grether’s lifelong love of penises and masturbation has led him to achieve a level of mastery and understanding of masturbation that is at once unique and extremely rare. He is renowned for both his ability to achieve seemingly endless states of prolonged and intense masturbatory pleasure as well as his skill in passing this knowledge on to his students. Mr. Grether has made it his life’s mission to encourage men to take their practice of masturbation to new levels of personal enrichment and self-discovery.

Mr. Grether is a globally recognized masturbation activist, an accomplished masturbation coach, and a tireless facilitator of masturbation workshops. In 2001 he coined the now popular term “Mindful Masturbation”. He is the author of a best-selling book, The Secret of the Golden Phallus, plus the erotic fantasy novels The Moontusk Chronicles. His website can be found at www.eroticengineering.com.

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A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.

Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.