Ask The Batemaster: Masturbation Shame Still Gets Me
I still feel masturbation shame after I ejaculate, even after reading everything you've said before about shame on The Bator Blog. How do I overcome this?
The Batemaster (Bruce P. Grether)
Ask The Batemaster: Mutual Exposure
My buddy likes me to watch him jerk off, but he won’t let me do it at the same time except with a hand inside my shorts and no mutual exposure. What’s going on?
Ask The Batemaster: Benefits of Prolonged Cum Denial
Many bators practice prolonged edging and semen retention, we talk a lot about it on The Bator Blog. What are the rewards and benefits of prolonged cum denial?
Ask The Batemaster: The Right Touch
Masturbation pleasure has many nuances and needs the right touch. What do you do when your bate buddy wants to finish you off but you prefer to do it yourself?
Ask The Batemaster: The Afterglow
Porn seems to end so abruptly at times. I love to see dicks get soft, to see guys float and look dreamy in the afterglow. Why do they make them end so suddenly?
Ask The Batemaster: I Just Wanna Watch Other Guys JO
My best buddy is kind of versatile like me, only he also likes standard gay porn a lot. All I want to see is guys JO. What does this mean about me?
Ask The Batemaster: How To Enter Continuous Orgasm
When you talk about “dry orgasms” sometimes I also hear you mention a continuous orgasmic state. Sounds incredible! What is that really? How can I get there?
Ask The Batemaster: Edging Skills
I’m working hard and practicing to become better at edging, even to masturbate mindfully, but I still ejaculate too easily. How can I do better?
Ask The Batemaster: Totally Naked Men Excite Me Less
I get turned on and jack off almost exclusively to shirtless men, but when guys are totally naked, it doesn’t do so much for me. Is this a fetish? Am I strange?
Ask The Batemaster: Morning Wood Dilemma
My partner is a light sleeper. He sleeps late and I wake early. When I stroke my morning wood in our bed as quietly as possible, it still wakes him
Ask The Batemaster: Neuroplasticity and Masturbation
More recently, it has been discovered neuroplasticity of the brain can weave new nerve pathways, repairing damage from injury and enhancing brain function.
Ask The Batemaster: Multiple Ejaculation
I experience multiple ejaculation, sometimes three times in a session. Hardly a pause (pun intended!) Can I keep this up (intended again) as I get older?