Please explain the (Solo) Sex Magick thing…
QUESTION:
Your protégé Dragon Puppy often talks about semen retention and Sex Magick. Can you please explain in simple terms just how this stuff works?
RESPONSE:
It’s my honor and privilege to explain this the best I can, briefly and simply! Let me back up just a bit to describe what I consider actual Real Magick to be, and I don’t mean anything supernatural or paranormal by this. To me, Real Magick is “altering consciousness at will,” because when your consciousness changes, the reality you experience changes. Also, Magick is “aligning yourself with Nature, with how the Universe is organized.”
Further, in my opinion all Real Magick is basically sexual or erotic in nature, because erotic energy is actually the creative energy that produces everything we experience. If you consider carefully, you as a human being are created by the Phallic Energy of your biological father’s seed, his semen. Literally, your father’s ejaculation created you.
Semen retention means you choose not no ejaculate for a period of time, though you still continue to cultivate and generate erotic energy through masturbation or sexual activity. This builds a charge of the creative energy, just like charging up a battery. Instead of using that charge immediately, you continue to store the charge, so it builds higher and higher. This process can take you into realms of ecstatic bliss far beyond what guys call edging. Edging may be delicious, of course, but it is often focused on control and keeping yourself in that one place short of ejaculation.
This process can take you into realms of ecstatic bliss far beyond what guys call edging.
To cultivate your erotic energy during semen retention for Sex Magick is far more flowing and fluid and honors all states of arousal from the soft penis to full erection and allows it to wax and wane like the phases of the Moon, to ebb and flow like the tides of the ocean.
As you use this powerful generation of pure penis pleasure to transform your inner experience within your body, eventually the same creative energy can be used to influence your external reality via Male Solo Sex Magick. This is an actual creative power that must be used responsibly, not to exert control over other people, but to guide events towards the greater good for all, or to help manifest something beneficial to yourself. For example, you might do this for world peace, or to dissolve any lingering shame you feel about your body and sexuality.
The process to manifest something is undertaken only after a period of self-empowerment via what I call Mindful Masturbation. You create a simple focus of a few words or an image to represent what you wish to create. Build up a high and powerful charge of erotic energy. Keep this focus clearly in mind as you go ahead and ejaculate and maintain the clear focus all through the intense orgasm.
Then relax and keep yourself open to how your intention will manifest: not necessarily just when or how you expect. However, this process will produce a change in your life according to the focus you maintained. Trust that the Universe feels your ecstatic bliss and responds.
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
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I have always enjoyed masturbation and have been a long-time edger. However, I have never really given much thought to truly becoming a mindful masturbator like those you mentor until recently. I was always too busy with work and or school, but the events of the past year have changed my life dramatically as has been the case with many. I am in the process of relocating to a new community where I will no longer have any roommates, and I will be working entirely from home. I want to use this new found freedom and time to masturbate more frequently, and I am seeking to use this opportunity to devote myself to focus on becoming an elite mindful masturbator like dragon puppy. I am going to be embarking on a strict diet, practicing yoga for an hour at least 3 times a week and daily exercise, and of course masturbation. (the best part, of course!) But I am curious as to if you recommend several sessions of say 30 minutes a day or one or two longer sessions of an hour or more or something different. I am so anxious to experience the joy that you all do, and I am not in a rush, but I don’t know how long I will have this opportunity to accelerate my advancement.
HI Brother Allen: Sorry it took me a while to spot your nice comment here! BW used to notify me of all comments on the blogs, but somehow this has slipped through the cracks. Your erotic journey is commendable, and a I salute you for it! Diet, Yoga, exercise, yes, all good for enhancing self-pleasure and vice versa. As for how long or how often to masturbate, listen to your body. I suggest it’s healthy for most men to masturbate at least an hour every day, or try to. Sometimes if you miss a day, no biggie, but play with your morning wood if you wake up aroused, or stroke a while before you get up early in your day. Also,l though you don’t need a fixed schedule, sometimes that IS good! Make appointments with yourself, and whne you can, sometimes stroke longer, for a couple of hours or more. You’ll discover it is making you a better person, if you persist! — BPG
I am grateful for your response, Bruce. My question of scheduling and routine turned out to be silly. I discovered that the freedom of living along without roommates, the extra time I found myself with and the increased pleasure I was having every time I masturbated made any preplanned schedule a moot point. I have found myself spending various amounts of time in my pleasure zone (generally from 90 minutes to 3 hours) but I have discovered the importance of not focusing on the time involved, only the journey. I honestly have never had such experiences, and I look forward to those days when I know I can go for super extended sessions of a half day or more. I will add that this type of masturbation resembles “jacking off” in name only.
I am feeling more content by the day, and I am less concerned with “being right” or personal possessions.
Dear Brother! Thank you again for elaborating on your previous testimony, and this is also inspiring, meaningful, clearly honest. Indeed, I find that the length of time I spend masturbating matters less than the quality of the pure penis pleasure. In the morning, every morning when I wake before daybreak (yes, I’m one of this rare animals, an early riser!) I pee one last time, hydrate well, then get back into bed. I like to enjoy my Morning Wood, often intending a brief session of 15 minutes or a half hour. Once I return from that indescribably delicious erotic trance, I often discover that an hour or more has passed! Time is an elastic, mysterious thing, isn’t it? Congrats on your journey, and again, Thank you! Peace — BPG
I have been a practitioner for well over 30 years and I have been apart of 3 circles and I have met many other practitioners over the past several years. Your explanation is one of the best and clearest on sex Magic that I have heard in a long time.
Glad you appreciated it! This practice is something a man can get to through steps… as you know, it doesn’t happen overnight, and may not even be for everyone. But it most definitely works!!! Peace — BPG
I’m 76 and with enough Tadalafil I’ve been able to stay hard and edging for 14 hours and 37 minutes. This is my 60th year of dedication to my cock. How can I become a BateMaster? [email protected]
Hello, Brother Rob! Thank you for asking. I suggest you begin by watching and actually practicing with the free online video coaching series: 9 GOLDEN KEYS TO MINDFUL MASTURBATION. You can find it on the Erotic Engineering site, here: https://www.eroticengineering.com/9goldenkeys-full That’s just the beginning, so once you’ve been practicing these things for a while, if yo9u want more suggestions or encouragement, get in touch again, okay??? Peace — BPG
As a new member I enjoy the articles on various aspects of masturbation. At 78, I have been a dedicated masturbator for 66 years. I realize all men learn the pleasure of masturbating at or shortly after reaching puberty. When I was young I introduced several of my friends to the ultimate pleasure of masturbation, sometimes in groups. My cock was larger than most and my friends enjoyed playing with it and stroking it. I used to have sleepovers with friends and we got little sleep as we enjoyed each others cocks. For me, “size matters”. Ove a really huge meaty dick.