QUESTION:
I love a good urinal bate in a public restroom. Most times I’m alone the whole time, or I’m ignored and not looking for more than what I do. Not even looking to masturbate with someone else. Still, the excitement that I could get caught sends me into the stratosphere! Often, I come really fast. Is this dangerous? Could I get arrested?
RESPONSE:
Law enforcement ought to have more important things to do than worry over men masturbating in public restrooms. Still, if you are witnessed, it can be considered indecent exposure or public indecency in the legal sense. There are some blurry areas where it seems foolish to draw fine lines, as just about every man has sometimes been peeing and glanced aside to see the penis of another guy nearby. This doesn’t mean that the looker or the man being seen are doing anything actively immoral.
Public restrooms are a classic “cruising ground” for what is considered “illicit” or “impersonal” sexual encounters. Some men are looking for more than you are. Certainly, such a location is not a place to expect you will meet a romantic partner—though you never know! Dating and hookup apps are often not very useful either. All such ways of meeting or encountering anyone are fraught with some challenges, even dangers.
Men are often naturally curious to see that “private” part of another man’s body, regardless of how you may identify yourself sexually, in terms of other interactions. This fascination is not only natural but healthy and often satisfies your curiosity to some extent; each man’s penis differs in certain details, yet all have strong similarities.
As for the legal repercussions, this is an unfortunate realm in the sense that it is also a matter of interpretation. Did someone deliberately expose himself? Was whoever saw him disturbed or bothered by seeing his penis?
There is such a thing as entrapment, in which legal authorities set up a situation to entice someone into such activities. Such laws may seem irrational currently, with explicit images easily available online. At the same time, walking into a public restroom is often done for the supremely innocent reason that you just need to pee.
So-called “public places” are increasingly under surveillance. And online, your data is being harvested all the time. There is no good reason you should be totally paranoid and live in fear if you operate with some common sense.
But keep aware of the legalities. Do your own research online and decide for yourself.
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at BateWorld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
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Suggestion: Go into a stall, instead. I also loved, back in my day, bating at the urinals. It was quite thrilling and I still remember the first time I caught someone watching me pee and I got hard from his eyes on me and ended up stroking and jacking off for him. But the risk is great, depending, especially on the layout of the restroom. I ended up going into stalls. It’s still quite thrilling, more comfortable and requires the viewer to do a bit of the work themselves, to get their eyes full of your hardon. Its also hours of fun. The center stall, if there are more than one, is best. Increases your chances of being “caught/watched” pleasuring yourself, which many men do, str8, gay, bi. The stalls are full of jerkers. Some who want to be caught and some who don’t. I use the word “caught” here as a favorable term. Just make sure you’re caught by the right eyes, to fuel your hot bate. Sure, I let a few guys feel me up, under the stall wall and did a few myself but my main joy was just bating freely, in a public space and random chances of having the luck of someone watching me and enjoying seeing my erection. This time of year is particularly fun. You can also lure a watcher from the urinal to and adjoining stall, if you get a watchers signal, he’d like to see you jack.