We can [frot] for hours… This is almost like a religion to us. I think it’s spiritual! What do you think?
QUESTION:
My good friend from work and I love doing cock2cock frot best of all. We even do it in the MENS room at work sometimes! He stays over with me quite often. We can do it for hours with lots of lube, and don’t ever get tired of it. This is almost like a religion to us. I think it’s spiritual! What do you think?
RESPONSE:
I completely agree with you that when men rub their erect penises together this can be a profound spiritual experience! Sometimes people distinguish spirituality from religion this way: “spirituality” is your own direct experience of the mysterious or the divine; “religion” is a set of beliefs and practices you learn from others. In this manner, I consider cock2cock intensely spiritual, plus just as much fun as any erotic experience!
My own path to become “The Bate Master” began with an early experience during a sleepover. A friend my own age and I rubbed our penises together while we were supposedly sleeping on the porch of his family’s house. Bright stars twinkled and frogs and insects chanted through the darkness. We knelt face-to-face and my handsome young friend seemed to know more than I did…
“I consider cock2cock intensely spiritual, plus just as much fun as any erotic experience!”
This felt incredibly good! Before long, I had the sense there were no longer two young guys pressing and rubbing our erections against each other. It seemed we were one ecstatic being with four legs, two arms and two heads. In ancient Greece, the Creation Story tells of how everything began from Chaos. From Chaos emerged the Earth, the Underworld, and then the primordial form of Eros, the God of Love.
This first form of Eros was a four-legged, four-armed, two-headed creature. Later, Eros was broken in two, and each half had two legs, two arms and one head. Those halves began looking for a reunion with their missing half! This is called an “explanation myth,” because it is supposed to explain the origins of all erotic attraction between people. Like, everyone looks for their missing half.
During those first few sessions of cock2cock with my friend, I soon felt that we merged. Nothing existed except a powerful glow of profound, mysterious pure penis pleasure. I felt that I expanded until I merged with everything.
After those few sleepovers when we shared cock2cock, sadly, during puberty I became very shy about my appearance. Not until many years later, when I was forty-one years of age, was I able to return to that lost Penis Paradise. Finally, I discovered what became Mindful Masturbation and learned to make ejaculation a choice. I often spent many hours in masturbatory ecstasy. My self-esteem improved, and my inhibitions dissolved. Soon I also began to share cock2cock with other men again! For me, cock2cock remains a special pleasure unlike any other!
Though I don’t call it my religion, it’s definitely spiritual for me, and among my favorite things in life. When you rub your erection against the erection of a friend, nothing is missing, right? We’re in the same ballpark on this one!
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I can definitely relate. The experience can complement a relationship, whether with oneself or with a partner. For me, it doesn’t seem to be a mechanical formula, where I can put in a coin and can boringly expect an outcome. That makes it more precious when it happens…
Well said and actually, I would say the spirituality can be there during oral or mutual masturbation. I know it is with me….
I am all in on frottage,,,, but comparisons can be odious….mutual masturbation and oral between two men can be and is frequently spiritual. No need for making a “better than” choice.