“To actually taste your friend’s pre-cum can never be considered 100% safe.”

QUESTION:

My buddy always wants to taste my pre-cum when we jerk together. He gets mad that I don’t want to taste his. Anyway, is it safe? I’m just not into that. What should I do?

RESPONSE:

To actually taste your friend’s pre-cum can never be considered 100% safe. There are all sorts of STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) that could be contracted this way. I’m not suggesting you live in fear of your masturbation buddy’s pre-cum, just be aware that life never comes with any kind of 100% guarantee that anything is absolutely safe.

Your best approach is to communicate with your friend honestly and openly and employ common sense. Even when many men now take an effective HIV-prevention medicine, there are still other STDs, not to mention other viruses and bacteria to consider. Again, it is not a matter of being fearful, but acknowledging the science and the medicine involved. Body fluids often contain infectious pathogens.

Something else worth considering: though it may seem like a cool ritual for Bator Brothers to taste each other’s pre-cum, is it necessary in order to bond over the fantastic act of masturbating together and perhaps even stroking each other’s erect penises? I suggest you consider saying, “Hey this whole situation is incredibly hot, only I’m not sure I’m totally comfortable with that! Can we, maybe, instead just agree to honestly give each other guidance in how we like to be masturbated?”

This is really at the bottom line about responsible behavior and accepting responsibility for your own safety.

You might suggest to your buddy that you would love to show him with his hand on your erection, your hand over his hand, guiding it, to show him the grips you like, the strokes you like, the pace you prefer.

You may think that my advice this time errs on the side of caution, and of course, it’s entirely up to you how you choose to proceed. Maybe it is worth a slight risk to make your buddy feel good, to make him feel trusted? But the real issue is also that you never know for sure, about yourself or anyone else. Pathogens are invisible and may be transmissible even when the host experiences and shows no symptoms.

This is really at the bottom line about responsible behavior and accepting responsibility for your own safety… except that in this case, the responsibility is shared. Never do anything you really don’t want to do, especially just because someone else wants you to do it!

Please just consider seriously what I’ve said, then do whatever you think is right and reasonable.

Most important: Have fun!

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A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.

Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.