Ask The Batemaster: How To Avoid Body-Shaming
Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot of online porn vids seem to cause me body shame. I’m a bit chubby and a “cub." How can I improve my body image?
Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot of online porn vids seem to cause me body shame. I’m a bit chubby and a “cub." How can I improve my body image?
I’ve two great bate buddies, and they both love doing it with me. But so far, they won’t do a 3-way with all 3 of us. That’s my fantasy! Doesn’t it sound hot?
I’m fully vaccinated. Seems there’s a lot of unknowns. I want to go to an in-person bate weekend, but I’m not sure. Do you think it’s safe?
The idea that masturbation is anti-social is just part of outdated anti-masturbation campaigns that linger from the last few centuries.
I’m still a virgin, even though I’m in my late twenties, and all I want is to masturbate. I’m a happy person! Do you think I need to lose my virginity?
I’ve got some great bate buddies, which is a huge blessing in my life! But unless they will kiss deeply and pinch my nips really hard I can’t come with them.
It used to be hard not to cum almost immediately. Since I have learned your Mindful Masturbation practice, I can even frot with guys for a long, long time.
I know you say it’s good to stroke with lube, but I love dry stroking! I’m circumcised, and my penis is still really sensitive. What’s wrong with this picture?
When I see that a guy has shaved it’s an instant turn-off and I totally lose interest. It seems so unnatural! Why do some guys do that to what Nature gave them?
I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a lot. We don’t talk about sex at all. Is it a good idea to try?
My best friend and I love to masturbate together. I know he does it a lot with other men online. How can I persuade him to stick to me as his only bate buddy?
Am I asexual? I only masturbate once every week or two, and sex is not so important to me as it seems to many guys.