Ask The Batemaster: The Spirituality of Frotting
We can frot for hours with lots of lube, and don’t ever get tired of it. This is almost like a religion to us. I think it’s spiritual! What do you think?
We can frot for hours with lots of lube, and don’t ever get tired of it. This is almost like a religion to us. I think it’s spiritual! What do you think?
By cultivating my erotic energy mindfully, I’ve experienced profoundly altered states that seemed “out-of-body” or “psychedelic” without the use of drugs.
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Most guys in books don’t seem to masturbate, at least it isn’t often mentioned. Why is there such a void of this kind of thing in books?
I told my family over Thanksgiving Dinner that I love to masturbate. They’re still really upset and it’s almost Christmas. What's this all about? How do I deal?
I’ve sometimes heard you compare our erect penises to trees! How about Christmas trees? Are there any particular phallic significances to this holiday season?
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My family is not religious or conservative. But I still feel some guilt or shame after I come. Where does this come from? How can I overcome it?