Your nipples may be on the lower end of the spectrum of sensitivity, but given attention and devotion, you can develop more and possibly a lot more sensitivity from them.
QUESTION:
I see how lots of guys play with their nips when they jerk-off. I’m envious, ’cause mine just aren’t so sensitive. Seems hardly worth it to try! How can I make them feel more?
RESPONSE:
This is a great subject, which in itself largely answers the ludicrous notion that male nipples are useless, or pointless. Simply because you cannot naturally feed a baby your own milk through your nipples does not mean they don’t serve important purposes! Innate nipple-sensitivity varies among men, probably due mainly to genetics. At the same time, your nipples have some erectile function not unlike that of your penis, if sometimes less dramatic. Plus, male nipples are endowed with nerves.
Your nipples may be on the lower end of the spectrum of sensitivity, but given attention and devotion, you can develop more and possibly a lot more sensitivity from them. First of all, notice that when you pinch them fairly hard (we’re talking about the tiny protruding nub of flesh in the middle of the flatter, pigmented areola that spreads around it in a circular shape) you will feel some pain. Perhaps as a subtext at first, beneath the pain is a twinge of pleasure.
Even if the pleasure seems somewhat dim at first, or even non-existent, it is the fertile soil that you can plant your intention into water and nourish the developing sensations of your male nipples.
Various strategies may help. Number One: persistence! And have fun with this, don’t get impatient for “porn star” results that will make you gasp and moan and twist your face in reaction right away. You may want to play with your nipples even when you are not masturbating. You can wear little non-harmful clamps, or snake-bite kit suction cups on your nipples, to stimulate them and keep some of your attention returning to them often.
While you masturbate, incorporate plenty of pinching, pulling, twirling, flipping and flicking your nipples with fingers of one hand while the other hand plays with your penis and balls and anus, or however you like to masturbate.
The marvelous thing that starts to go on—something almost miraculous—is that you will actually begin to wire-in new neural pathways within your nipples themselves and connect to your brain and your penis.
This is a process called “neuroplasticity,” and I know that is a mouthful of a word. But it’s an exciting discovery in just the last few decades. When you engage in “new or learning” behavior, you actually add new nerve-fiber pathways to your nervous system and brain. Connections increase! This has everything to do with masturbatory pleasure, especially what I call Mindful Masturbation.
Neuroplasticity is also a real part of why, with persistence, dedication, and enjoyment of the journey, you or any man can increase the delicious sensations from your nipples to add to your inventory of erotic self-pleasuring skills!
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
My nipples are so sesitive that I go wild when they are touched. It drives me insane. How can I make them less sensitive.
This is a different reaction on the subject! I don’t usually suggest the “de-0sensitizing” creams or lotions some sites advertise as a way to last long when you apply them to your penis (not what I consider the best approach to that issue) however, such a slightly “numbing” application might work on your nips. They are similar to the penis in their erectile function, on a far smaller scale.
I am hairy man and the hair is very thick around my nipples. I am pretty sure this is why mine are not sensitive as the hair is contact with them most of the time.
This could be the case… not sure! My chest is smooth, so I never thought fo this!
My nipples are so sensitive,while i am bating andf i am pinching them it makes my butt hole twitch,GREAT FEELING.
Isn’t it marvelous?!?
Ever since I discovered my nipple sensitivity, nipple play has become an important part in my wanking experience. To pull and flick them is such an exciting experience. I couldn’t imagine play of any sort without nipple play .
Yes! Male nipples definitely have a purpose, don’t they??? Totally agree!!!
I agree, nipple play can add an extra little spark of pleasure to a bate session. Nipples are an area that’s certainly worth exploring for sure, give them a try to see if you enjoy it or not. Pinching them, brushing over them with a light touch or a combination. And you might even consider getting nipple clips if nipple pleasure is something you enjoy. Or make your own out of clothespins.
It’s been awhile since I’ve used clothespins and you may find them too tight when putting them on your nipples but you can stretch them out a bit. Then if its something you really do enjoy, I’d recommend getting nipple clips which allow you to adjust the tension “just right” so they’re not too tight and not too loose and falling off.
Yes, you don’t want clamps that really hurt bad or draw blood, and as you say, you can stretch their “spinginess” out a bit so they don’t clamp quite so tightly!
I’ve developed the sensitivity in my nipples over the years. Persist in playing with them and you’ll derive great pleasure from them. Even in public you can cross your arms and give yourself a quiet tug or twist without drawing attention. Make the most of what you’ve got. Enjoy!
The key to masturbatory excellence, as you suggest with this, is always practice! Practice! Practice!
I met some gal that liked “nursing” on guys’ nips whilst they masterbated her clit. Good times. She showed me her nipple suckers and I got some of my own. Haven’t seen her in a while, but I now have a pair of bullet nips that are lots of fun.
When they’re flaccid, I can “bate” them with some lotion and they swell to erect prominence, perhaps doubling in size, about the size of a fingertip to the first knuckle. Nipple b8 makes my gives my penis urges, but not a penile erection. I can have a sort of mental orgasm in a few minutes. My whole body shudders and bucks. I am just as exhausted as if I busted a nut.
I can also pleasure myself in public rather discreetly. The nipple erection makes them even more prominent in most of my shirts, but it draws a few glances which doesn’t bother me. I do have to watch the shuddering & bucking, so people don’t think I’m having a seizure or something.
Sometimes when my frigid wife starts droning, I twizzle both nips with both hands until my eyes about roll back in my head. She just loses it. More good times.
That’s a great testimony! Certainly given proper attention, many men’s nips can grow more responsive and more sensitive! So totally worth the effort!!! — BPG
I have been fascinated by all the men deriving pleasure through nipple stimulation. I have tried in the past to stimulate my nipples as I masturbated but to no avail. There just didn’t seem to be any sexual sensitivity in my nipples.
I read this column about neuroplasticity several weeks ago and the idea frequently and spontaneously popped into my head at various times during the day and night whether I was masturbating or not. I decided to make serious attempts to rewire my nipples toward sexual sensitivity.
About three weeks ago I began pinching my nipples hard. Of course it hurt but as I pinched for longer periods of time it hurt less. I’ve seen photos here on BW of men hanging clothespins from their nipples. I thought this looked silly but decided to give it a try as I can be persistent when I want something, especially when it involves cock pleasure. I have steel clothespins-those were too tight; wooden clothespins-less tight but still too much, plastic clothespins that were just right-they hurt but were bearable. Each day I put these pins on for longer periods of time. In between I would brush, squeeze, pull and pinch my nipples. After several days I felt exactly as Bruce described in the article, “…pain with a twinge of pleasure.” I also felt my cock throb each time I pinched my nipples to the point where my cock became semi-hard, or as author Joseph Wambaugh in The Choirboys described it, a blue veiner. My nipples have grown from a tiny BB size to an uncooked pea size. My nipples also seem to always exude some sort of stimulated feeling. I find myself frequently rubbing my nipples during the day through my shirt. If I give them a hard squeeze my cock gets a happy jolt. I now have also found that if I work my nipples as I masturbate I instantly get the urge to ejaculate or at the very least discharge a large amount of pre cum. I suppose I’ll have to work on controlling this so that I can incorporate nipple stimulation during long edging sessions.
It has only been three weeks since I began seriously working on my nipples and it is definitely evident that neuroplasticity is real and has worked for me. I find the painful squeezes delicious and enjoy the throbbing jolt my cock experiences. One question-will the nipples lose sexual sensitivity and/or shrink if left alone for a period of time or are my nipples hardwired and enlarged forever? Thank you for the insight on neuroplasticity.
Nipples are the only zone I have to use. I can’t, because of paralysis from the waist down, feel my penis and therefore don’t have any erection, or only a little even with the V tablet. I think clamping is fab. Wife won’t touch me sexually, but that’s another story for another comment on another day.