QUESTION:
I’m in my twenties, and I’m a horndog. I’d love to share the bate in person, but I have asthma and use an inhaler. I’m fully vaccinated, but can’t afford to get COVID, which is still around, though people pretend it’s not. Will anyone be up for an N95 bate with a guy who keeps a distance?
RESPONSE:
Be straightforward about what you are comfortable with, wherever it is you seek to find a bate buddy. At this point, in the winter of ’23–’24, COVID infections are indeed increasing again, and many hospitals that dropped the mask requirements for their staff are re-instituting them. Your safety concerns are valid. There’s now a tripledemic with flu and RSV, all of which present respiratory dangers.
If you consider yourself at high risk, as you clearly do, you would be wise to consider: How important is this to you? It’s totally understandable if you feel a great longing to share in-person masturbation with others, but I also respect the fact that you seek to be careful. That’s a good sign that your self-esteem and self-preservation instincts are strong.
This is not a time of year when outdoor masturbation is likely to be pleasant due to the cold weather. Still, in the coming springtime, if you could find private places outdoors for such an encounter, it is considered quite safe to meet people outdoors. So long as you keep at least 6 feet or more distance between you, you and your cohort could enjoy watching each other masturbate.
It’s not to be an alarmist or to say you should live in fear. However, at this point in the USA, there are also millions of people living with the effects of “long COVID.” This can cause brain fog and fatigue and may affect muscles, with an uncertain span for these effects. We simply have not known anything about the condition for long enough to be sure.
It would obviously be safest to network with online masturbators. It’s easy to think that is not a substitute for in-person sharing, but the pandemic has taught us how powerful and effective the online alternative of video conference with sound and sight can be.
Consider the fact that not only do you get the eye candy of watching the other fellow stroke his erect penis and the fun of him witnessing you do the same, but when you both accept this kind of journey, you feel the actual sensations of pure penis pleasure in your body!
For now, all things considered, it may be best to accept this alternative to in-person sessions. Work on enjoying this as fully as possible, even if you seek in-person experiences. It’s certainly better than getting too frustrated or dangerously sick.
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at BateWorld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
as a bator who suffers from long COVID, i can’t tell you how much i appreciate seeing both this question and the thoughtful, affirming response! wishing good health to all of my brothers in bate
Man, I feel this so much. As someone who’s got long-Covid, I appreciate it being mentioned as something to keep in mind. It sucks. Try to not get it.
It’s been a very isolated couple years and unfortunately I don’t see it changing anytime soon. My living situation doesn’t make it easy to mic, so camming doesn’t have much appeal for me, which is a bummer.
I was able to meet up with a buddy earlier this year who took precautions for a few days prior to us meeting up, and I appreciated it so much. It made the experience much better to not have to worry about covid exposure, as well as seeing that he cared enough to accommodate me. A great example of community and brotherhood. I’m glad and lucky to have him in my life 🙂
I made a group on BW for bators with Long Covid, you can check it out here– https://bateworld.com/group.php?group_id=3812.