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Ask The Batemaster: My Penis Fixation

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“…just seeing a penis, still always thrills me to my core!”

QUESTION:

I am pretty much single-minded! My earliest memory is of how penises rocked my world, even then! Ever since, I’ve had a major penis fixation, for sure. Yes, I love to masturbate, but just seeing a penis, still always thrills me to my core! Do you think this is anything unusual or extreme?

RESPONSE:

There are a great many men with similar obsessions to yours. This is neither unusual nor unhealthy. It’s a perfectly reasonable and life-enhancing part of being a human male to find male genitalia, especially your own penis and the penises of men, a major fascination. Why not? This organ is truly remarkable in many ways!

For one thing, the penis is in a literal sense, your source. Your conception could not have occurred without the penis of your biological father, barring a few very obscure and extreme procedures that are possible, but rare and unlikely. It is natural and virtually inevitable for every human life to be the product of the ejaculatory orgasm of a male human, which expels fertile semen from the tip of the man’s penis. This ends up fertilizing an ovum that develops into you.

Another major reason that your penis fixation has a legitimate basis is that your penis and those of all other men are the generators and location of potentially limitless amounts of indescribably delicious pleasurable sensations. Though many sexperts like to remind people that the brain is the primary sex organ, in my opinion, this is not 100% true. Or at least it is not the whole story. In truth, purely mental or cerebral erotic pleasure for a man remains only fantasy unless it is. Connected via nervous system wiring with a penis. Fantasy is not bad, but it’s in your mind.

Thus, the penis is the literal source of your existence, as well as the generator of incredibly precious sensations of erotic pleasure. Due to persistent cultural inhibitions about nudity and sexuality in general, the fact that, though many current global cultures are supposedly more enlightened than the past they grew out of, the revelation, viewing and celebration of the actual male penis and erection remains frequently tabooed. It is either discouraged or even forbidden in many contexts, even when full female nudity is quite acceptable. This persists partly because the penis is indeed, such a powerful source of personal empowerment and individual growth!  Shameless enjoyment of the penis and erection actually threatens control by authorities.

Another reason that your penis fixation is a marvelous and good thing is that it connects you with all of your fellow human males in Phallic Brotherhood. No, there is nothing unusual or extreme about your fixation. It makes the world a more beautiful place for you!

You may be aware that I, Bruce P. Grether, have a similar attitude towards the penis, as well as great and insatiable enthusiasm for male masturbation. Like you, I’ve been aware of this fascination from a very early age: I consider it a gift.

A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.

Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.


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How Bruce P. Grether became the Batemaster

Among his earliest memories, Bruce recalls seeing an adult man’s penis swing about anchored in a nest of curly brown hairs when the man was changing clothes. That penis fascinated him and he somehow knew it was of major importance. He also remembers how good it felt to slide down a stairway banister or to climb a tree with pressure between his legs sending delicious sensations all through his body.

At an early age, he played doctor with another boy his age, and the frottage he enjoyed as they rubbed their penises together made him feel One with All Things.

He was older, maybe 9 or 10 years when he figured out how to actually masturbate while taking a shower. Immediately Bruce became a fan of self-pleasure, though, with puberty, he became extremely shy about his body being seen. Still, when his pubic hair sprouted and his penis grew bigger, it astonished him how incredible the sensations could feel with adult genitalia.

All through his 20s and 30s Bruce loved masturbating and did it often. Something kept tell him though, that there could be more to it. None of the books he read about Tantra and Taoist erotic cultivation provided simple how-to instructions. Finally, in his early 40s, he came upon Joseph Kramer’s video about male genital massage: FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN.

Having no playmates to try this with, he tried it on himself. In the process, he discovered what he soon named “Mindful Masturbation.” For 6 weeks he masturbated for hours every day, and did not ejaculate once! This was the Penis Paradise he had been looking for since his adventures playing doctor as a young boy. He was changed forever and lost most of his shyness and insecurities.

Bruce began to listen deeply to whatever his penis told him. This way he learned more and more about male masturbation, the penis, and he studied human sexuality. Soon he was hired to write professionally for the sex education site JackinWorld (dot) com, which he did for some years under the name “Bruce McFarland.”

Since then, his erotic activism is more radical and he uses his actual given name: Bruce P. Grether, AKA the Batemaster. He has hosted workshops and now does online masturbation coaching. In 2012 his best-selling book THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS was published and with his handsome young friend Blue Tyger he created the Erotic Engineering site to explore advanced male self-pleasure practices.

Bruce considers himself a Missionary of the Male Mysteries and his work continues.

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  1. I too am obsessed with the penis, it’s a beautiful and glorious part of men. I love having one! I agree that the cultural taboos around the penis are not good. If penises were seen as often as breasts the world would be a different place. If men could be more open about their penis with out feeling ashamed or like a deviant it would be better. That the naked penis and the erect penis is relegated to pornography with all the negativity society places on that is tragedy.