I can hardly squeeze out a drop! How can I make more?
QUESTION:
Some of my online bate buds (these days they are all online!) make loads of precum, like it pours out! I can hardly squeeze out a drop. I know you say the difference is mostly genetic. But isn’t there some way I can make more?
RESPONSE:
Many men, especially those who practice edging or semen retention for longer periods of pure penis pleasure without ejaculating so often, cherish what you call “precum” here. This crystal clear, syrupy fluid is produced by the gland called the Bulbourethral, AKA the Cowper’s gland. It’s inside your body just behind the place where your penis shaft emerges from your pelvis. Yes, I have stated before that the production of this delightful fluid, in terms of producing it at all and the amount a man produces during high arousal is largely determined by genetics, the design of your DNA, if you can produce it at all, there are ways to encourage and increase it.
This fluid is designed to de-acidify, or to alkalinize the inside of the urethra (the channel through which you also urinate) to protect other semen components including the lively sperm cells themselves, from being damaged by residual urine left in the urethra.
One means of encouraging precum production is to hydrate well, drink at least one full glass of pure water before you start your masturbation session, and for a longer session, drink a bit more now and then as you continue.
Also effective is also to realize that that the neurons, or nerve cells that send stimulating signals to the Bulbourethral (as well as to the prostate and seminal vesicles) are part of what is called the relaxation response of the autonomic nervous system. What this means in simpler terms is that to keep yourself relaxed during high arousal really helps you to generate more precum. Some guys may think relaxation is the opposite of being excited during intense masturbation, but skilled male masturbators learn that erection is part of this relaxation response, which is also why it helps a lot to breathe deeply during high quality masturbatory pleasure.
To make precum, if you can, I suggest you keep relaxed during masturbation, and when highly aroused, try pressing and rubbing directly behind your balls while you firmly squeeze the shaft of your erection. Feeling extremely turned on in pure penis pleasure may increase the precum flow.
Precum can clearly be seen with some of the greatest male masturbators I observe online, when their precum really flows from their meatus onto that delightful and spongy “helmet of flesh,” their glans penis. I see men dabbing fingertips into the flow, pulling up strands of the clear mucus, and often tasting it with a fingertip to their mouth in the process. Its taste tends to be sublime, sometimes somewhat salty.
I like to comfort men who don’t make much precum or none at all, with a reminder that it’s not actually necessary to the fullest enjoyment of masturbation. Such men may also enjoy seeing the precum flow of their Phallic Brothers. Personally, I usually only make a few diamond drops at a time, but I do adore the stuff! Enjoy!
Some other readings on Precum from The Batemaster:
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
My precum output varies and if I’m not making as much as I would like I simulate it with waterbased lube. I’ve found KY Ultragel to be the closest to precum.
Good explanation on the organ that produces it & where its located and why we make it. So interesting to know, nature has a reason for everything. As I’ve gotten older I seem to make less pre than I did as a younger bator. Although I was never big on making pre. I’ve seen some on cam chats where I thought they’d cum’d but it was just precum.
You wrote,”…keep yourself relaxed during high arousal really helps you to generate more precum.”
My personal experience is rather the opposite. I’ve never been a big “pre-cummer;” just small amounts.
But I’ve found that if I go like 3 days (optimum) without ejaculating, so that I’m really horny for a good nut, and then take my time with porn browsing and edging, I can produce these beautiful surges of pre-cum, almost like an ejaculation. They feel great, look and taste great, too. But I’m definitely not “relaxed” in any sense. My level of arousal is at 11 when these pre-cum surges occur.
There are no rules, no absolute, no dogmas in Mindful masturbation. Yes, precut usually flows best during very intense, high arousal in pure penis pleasure. Still, ironically there is what seems a paradox, as you can usually achieve higher erotic states while the relaxation response dominates, rather than fight/flight. Whatever works well, go for it. One thing, however, is to try truly Mindful Masturbation, try skipping the porn and focus on your own body, what you are actually doing, and your own immediate sensations! — BPG
Great technical explanation, with a little bit of za-zoom to it as well. 😉
I have a very odd “pre-cum” response that I’m not aware of anyone else having.
Firstly, I don’t pre-cum much – if at all – during an edge or masturbating. When it does happen tho, it drives me absolutely crazy. It’s like finding a diamond in a mountain.
But what is typical, is that after a good long edging session – even if I’ve ejaculated – I will ooze “pre-cum” (technically I guess it’s post-cum, but t’s definitely not semen) for up to half an hour later… and copious amounts of it! My underwear usually gets a huge blotch on it. I try to sop it up and ingest as much of it as I can. It’s far too precious to waste. (And )
I love the taste of my pre cum that’s why I love to edge myself because of it and i will keep oozing it long after my first edge so I keep edging as many times as possible just for the pre cum hell I’m so good at it now that I actually cum a little bit before the big one and Ilove it too but I’m still trying to get used to eating my actual finally the texture and the taste is pretty intense
Bruce, your comment about getting off porn interests me. I feel I’m too dependent on it. I have great orgasms when I masturbate and watch porn. I do have problems cumming with a person. I feel the porn watching may be a big part of this issue.
I produce soo much pre-cum it’s like a faucet I hardly ever need to use lube. I noticed that after starting some vitamin supplements a coach recommended for my health that now I seem to make even more hopefully the batemaster could say what vitamins would be best for those who want to produce more