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One knuckle deep is the start, two is amazing, three is Heaven on Earth!

 

QUESTION:

With my bate bud, after we get really turned on for a while, one of us sticks his lubed finger into the other’s butthole, one knuckle at a time. A finger on the prostate and the other on his cock. One knuckle deep is the start, two is amazing, three is Heaven on Earth! We take turns. I never shoot as hard any other way. How common is this? Can it be any problem? 

 

RESPONSE:

Anal stimulation by men during masturbation is not rare, any more than it is universal or even necessary at all. Many guys discover that to stimulate the prostate, which lies inside your body behind the base of your penis, just beneath the bladder, can be a powerful addition to stimulation of the penis. 

During the early stages of arousal, your prostate gradually swells up a bit and grows more firm. It also becomes more sensitive to indirect stimulation through the wall of your rectum, inside your anus. During your early adulthood, your prostate is probably about the size of a table grape and over your lifetime it gradually grows to become about the size of a walnut.

Your prostate has three  primary functions:

  1. It contributes a fluid to the complex mix of your semen.
  2. It also helps you to produce hormones and helps regulate the flow of urine.
  3. It’s muscles spasm during your ejaculation and help to propel semen through the urethra and out the tip of your penis.

As lucky you and your lucky buddy have discovered, it can also contribute new levels to your erotic ecstasy while you masturbate, to stimulate your prostate at the same time. As you suggest, it’s best to wait until you are quite highly aroused before you penetrate your anus in any way.

Your body arouses from front-to-back, so this is helpful. Don’t rush! Of course, doing it solo or with a friend, make sure your fingernails are cut short and filed smooth. Use plenty of lube.

The first knuckle insertion is only likely to push through the outer sphincter, under voluntary control, into the inner sphincter of muscle, which yields best when you wish to be penetrated. The second knuckle depth is likely to be reaching your prostate. All the way in allows you to undulate your entire finger against the bulge of the prostate through the rectal wall.

Words cannot begin to describe the intensity of the bliss this combination of two forms of stimulation, internal prostate pressure combined with the external of stroking the penis produces. In fact, this can be a challenge to learn to endure such potent ecstasy. Go slow, breathe deep, and be careful.

You and your bate buddy are onto something major and profound!

A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at BateWorld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.

Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.





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How Bruce P. Grether became the Batemaster

Among his earliest memories, Bruce recalls seeing an adult man’s penis swing about anchored in a nest of curly brown hairs when the man was changing clothes. That penis fascinated him and he somehow knew it was of major importance. He also remembers how good it felt to slide down a stairway banister or to climb a tree with pressure between his legs sending delicious sensations all through his body.

At an early age, he played doctor with another boy his age, and the frottage he enjoyed as they rubbed their penises together made him feel One with All Things.

He was older, maybe 9 or 10 years when he figured out how to actually masturbate while taking a shower. Immediately Bruce became a fan of self-pleasure, though, with puberty, he became extremely shy about his body being seen. Still, when his pubic hair sprouted and his penis grew bigger, it astonished him how incredible the sensations could feel with adult genitalia.

All through his 20s and 30s Bruce loved masturbating and did it often. Something kept tell him though, that there could be more to it. None of the books he read about Tantra and Taoist erotic cultivation provided simple how-to instructions. Finally, in his early 40s, he came upon Joseph Kramer’s video about male genital massage: FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN.

Having no playmates to try this with, he tried it on himself. In the process, he discovered what he soon named “Mindful Masturbation.” For 6 weeks he masturbated for hours every day, and did not ejaculate once! This was the Penis Paradise he had been looking for since his adventures playing doctor as a young boy. He was changed forever and lost most of his shyness and insecurities.

Bruce began to listen deeply to whatever his penis told him. This way he learned more and more about male masturbation, the penis, and he studied human sexuality. Soon he was hired to write professionally for the sex education site JackinWorld (dot) com, which he did for some years under the name “Bruce McFarland.”

Since then, his erotic activism is more radical and he uses his actual given name: Bruce P. Grether, AKA the Batemaster. He has hosted workshops and now does online masturbation coaching. In 2012 his best-selling book THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS was published and with his handsome young friend Blue Tyger he created the Erotic Engineering site to explore advanced male self-pleasure practices.

Bruce considers himself a Missionary of the Male Mysteries and his work continues.

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