Your imagination, and especially online role-playing is a different animal from any actual in-person activity.
QUESTION:
I love to role-play with guys when we bate together on cam. Love older men, hairy men, their depth, and experience. I ask them to wear socks, and I like to call them “daddy,” if they don’t mind. Nothing like real incest, just play. Am I a perv?
RESPONSE:
Your imagination, and especially online role-playing is a different animal from any actual in-person activity. To stimulate your fantasies by pretending to have a specific relationship with an on-cam bate buddy is not perverted or wrong in any way, so long as he is willing to play along, and it doesn’t disturb him. Even if you masturbate with another man in person, if he wants you to wear a Spiderman costume, or wear tighty-whities and keep them on just below your balls, or wear nothing but a Mouse hat, none of this is twisted or bad.
So long as you willingly indulge one another’s specific preferences, whether these involve particular fetishes, anything like those mentioned above or not, if you employ fantasy to heighten or sustain arousal without any actual harmful or illegal activity, go for it!!! Don’t get stuck always requiring it but do enjoy!
When I’ve mentioned activities that involve members of a family related by blood, I always try to be clear that no actual sexual activity, of either witnessing or any kind of contact can be condoned. There are good reasons for incest taboos, even ones between male members of a family, for several reasons. Such taboos exist to preserve social structures and to avoid any possible abuse of authority, even in all-male situations where reproductive issues are not involved.
However, when you role-play, or fantasize during your solo session that do not directly involve anyone else, whatever fantasy or imagined scenario(s) turn you on are your business, and no one else is equipped to judge them. So long as indulging in these forms of mental and imaginative arousal do not inspire you to engage in actual behavior(s) that could be harmful or illegal, in truth it’s all just fine.
So long as indulging in these forms of mental and imaginative arousal do not inspire you to engage in actual behavior(s) that could be harmful or illegal, in truth it’s all just fine.
My own practice of what I call Mindful Masturbation involves not looking to outside sources for erotic stimulation, unless it is fellow men who are masturbating while you do so, or even in videos of solo self-pleasuring, or mutual and group masturbation.
In my experience, to keep the focus upon yourself, or also on masturbation short of other forms of insertive sexual activity can result in especially powerful, intense, and profound sessions of masturbation. I like to think that masturbatory sharing stopping short of including fellatio or anal penetration allows a greater scope of me to participate comfortably in such male masturbation sessions.
Your own behavior is not primarily about making others comfortable, but if they are made comfortable, perhaps more men could be willing. If you want to engage in specific role-playing, make it clear to your cohorts or playmates at the start , what floats your boat!
Enjoy!
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
