QUESTION:
When you talk about “dry orgasms” sometimes I also hear you mention a continuous orgasmic state. Sounds incredible! What is that really? How can I get there?
RESPONSE:
Thank you for your questions. This subject is close to my heart and is often between my legs and fills my entire being with bliss! Yes, dry orgasm is a fantastic thing to experience, and even more amazing to be able to generate by choice. I have written about that here before. Dry orgasm means you have the mental and emotional experience of an interval of orgasmic bliss, but without the physical event of ejaculation. Usually, you do not lose your erection and can continue to masturbate after such an event.
Though dry orgasms may not feel quite 100% so intense and obliterating as an ejaculatory orgasm, there is the great gift of being able to have multiple orgasms during one session.
I can personally generate dry orgasms at will, as I have described: you get very close to ejaculation and then relax the “pee stopper” muscle just below your prostate. As incredible as this experience is, for me personally it’s easier and more pleasant to enter that state you mentioned, which I call “continuous orgasmic pleasure.”
These somewhat advanced forms of pure penis pleasure require mindful attention. This is less likely to make sense if you always masturbate to fantasy or porn, because you truly need to keep your focus on your own body and your own sensations. Though your body helps to generate this kind of bliss, the place it registers in your awareness is in your mind.
“Though your body helps to generate this kind of bliss, the place it registers in your awareness is in your mind.”
You truly need to pay very close attention to precisely how close to that “edge” called ejaculatory inevitability you are. Imagine a kind of science-fiction image of a spacecraft surfing along the event-horizon that circles around a black hole in space. If you get too close, you’ll be sucked in; but if you don’t surf along that edge, you are only observing the process from outside as a mere idea. Continuous orgasmic intensity is something like an endless orgasm, as your sense of time disappears and nothing but powerful erotic ecstasy exists!
No two men necessarily experience these “advanced” states of ecstasy in the same way. Still, all of us can be inspired by and learn from one another’s experience! My own experience of continuous orgasmic states is something like what I felt after I learned how to do dry orgasms, and with practice they began to merge into prolonged periods of indescribable bliss.
Once you enter this high plateau of pure penis pleasure, it no longer requires any serious effort to resist going over the edge. It feels so incredible, that before long you discover it may surpass ejaculatory orgasm.
All men love to ejaculate—but there is an undiscovered country beyond!
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I’m not sure they are dry organisms because I produce lots of pre cum and love the taste of it so I try to prolong the actual big one for as long as possible just so o can keep tasting it
I love how you describe your experience.
I have not had enjoyed “continuous orgasm” but I often enjoy, what I call, “mini orgasms.” I usually attain this plateau when I edge for hours. You are right that this allows you to maintain an erection for many hours of blissful, cock pleasure. I am able to fall into the “black hole” if I wish or retreat after enjoying many, many, mini orgasms. I often find this more rewarding as it keeps me in a high level of horniness and arousal until my next opportunity to masturbate comes along. Bate on, brothers.
Love your description. Exactly my own experiences. I have edged over a couple of hard as fuck days (yes days) experiencing that blissful cock pleasure (obs interrupted sleep in between). So many mini orgasms and so much arousal over and over!
This is me exactly. Edging for a few hard as fuck days and deciding when to have that amazingly pleasureable, blissful cock experience. Mini orgasm after mini orgasm in a full state of arousal and that final explosive release!
Sounds amazing, almost unbelievable. I’m so used to bating to porn and blowing my load . You make it sound so easy but it’s really though to reprogram the brain to not rush to ejaculatory orgasm . I edge alot but eventually blow my load . Never the less I would like to try it , bate without porn and being mindful of one’s bodily functions while leading to the edge . Thanks ❤️
So is this similar to edging ?
If I produced (a personally meaningful amount of) precum I think I would be better at this — I know it’s probably programmed into my brain at this point. My turn on is what I can produce when I ejaculate because I’ve never been successful at producing pre-cum. No matter what I try.
Enjoying your own beautiful cock, with just YOURSELF as “fuel” is life-changing. Cut the porn chord and dive deep within. Bliss awaits. 😉
I’ve been doing multiple dry orgasms for about 10 years now as my primary way of experiencing erotic pleasure and building up energy in my body – something like 150,000! Before I learned the technique from Bruce, I’d taught myself to only ejaculate after making a conscious decision to shoot, and I think that made it easy for me learn. Usually the small peaks come about 30 – 50 strokes apart, but sometimes at the end of a long series in the shower they will start coming at every downstroke which feels pretty continuous.
I bate a lot using pix and vids, but the sessions can be much for intense when just concentrating on cock – on my knees, in the shower, are walking my bate path through the Vermont woods.
I blog all my bate sets (www.how2bate.blogspot.com) and this also helps me focus on my cock!
I didn’t pre-come much before I started the multiple dry orgasmic practice, but now pre-come usually starts to flow about half a dozen orgasms into the set and can continue. Not what I anticipated but a very tasty treat – I’ll suck it off my fingers after each peak!
I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced this problem with edging. I can make it to the edge two maybe three times. But here is where my problem comes in. If my dick starts to pulsate a bit with a tad of semen coming out or I guess this would be a mini orgasm, for some reason my dick must think it has had an orgasm and I lose my erection like a wet noodle. No matter how much I try to stroke and/or play with it, I can’t get my erection back. This is very frustrating to me because I want to play and experience these wonderful sensations for quite a while. I can’t even get it up watching porn. Very frustrating. So what I end up doing later is stroke to ejaculation and forget about the edge. I hate a ruined ejaculation.
I have been practicing mindful masturbation for over 12 years now, and have found that while I have multiple dry orgasms on demand, there are differences in the timing of what I call waves of pleasure. The wave of pleasure itself is sometimes more extended than other times and the time between the next wave is sometimes shorter as well. All of these experiences are joyously delightful in their own right, but I have tried to discern what triggers those amazing sessions when the waves are long and frequent and time seems to stand still. The one common thread for me is that even though I attempt to block my schedule out of my mind to the extent possible, subconsciously, my mind realizes that I usually don’t have the entire morning or afternoon at my disposal. Not surprisingly, these continuous wave experiences are almost always on a weekend when I can get away with dropping out of consciousness for hours.
Learning to ride the edge of orgasm and delay ejaculation is the greatest bodily pleasure I know. Learning it requires great discipline. First you must learn to recognize the PONR (point of no return). Then you approach that point, feel the orgasmic pleasure flood through your body, but stop before full ejaculation. Experience will teach you to recognize the approaching PONR sooner and this is when you can start experiencing continuous. Your arousal approaches the peak, but doesn’t arrive there. YOur erection may lessen a bit. if it does slow your strokes almost to motionlessness. Then where there is no risk of reaching the PONR soon, begin masturbating again, slowly increasing your speed as your arousal increases. As you might guess, this requires high self-awareness. I always recommend many bate sessions with eyes closed, to more easily concentrate on your own bodily sensations. this is a skill best learned alone. When you have mastered control of your ejaculations and you are experiencing riding the edge of orgasm, then you can bring your new skill to a sexual encounter with another. Awareness of your responsiveness comes first. Then you apply discipline to your continued practice with the aim of long-term pleasure. An orgasm without ejaculation feels like a 98% orgasm, (still damn good) but it delays ejaculation and the refractory period. Once mastered this adds up to many more hours of Cock pleasure. In a single session, say several hours, you will feel like you have had a continuous high level of arousal, with a few new-peak almost-ejaculations. In retrospect you remember this high arousal level, you feel flooded with endorphins, and you will sleep like a baby that night. It is incredibly relaxing. Having disciplined yourself to learn these new skills, you aren’t likely to revert to a simple, quick jackoff, for you will find in unsatisfying compared to the intense, deep, Cock pleasure you have now learned to experience.
Thank you for your explanation. I embrace mindful masturbation and can edge for hours and hours, even dedicating an entire weekend to me cock. I’ve tried dry orgasms and I believe I haven’t practiced enough on hold back at the PONR. Your explanation gives me the hope of being able to meet my goal by slowly pushing limits.
You make some great points. The bodily pleasure is immense which is why I desire to experience it so very often! The practice does require a high level of self awareness as you say. Even though I have been doing it for quite a number of years now, and can literally do it easily when I am alone and focused, I still have a terrible track record when I have distractions. I find the need to be in a meditative like state for best results, which I probably why I also find myself with my eyes closed the most often. The many more hours of cock pleasure you describe, for me, are simply an indication of us of how amazing and transformative this practice can be.
I joke to a friend of mine (who also practices mindful masturbation) that if I knew how to do this at 15, I may never have left home! It’s just so good!
Through long episodes of edging I managed to train myself to have fairly good control of easing up to the ejaculatory inevitability point.I can stop right on the edge and flex my cock myscle and ejacualte a fair amount of cum, without orgasming, and then I start jerking again, Sometimes i can do it 2-3 times before the final jack where I allow myself to orgasm. I can also use the cum as lube as I continue jacking, Of course it a very fine line and sometimes you slip over the edge…and accidentlally cum. But with jacking off even ‘failing’ is plenty of fun. I also have better orgasms now that are not penis ogasms like before. I dont feel it in any spexific body part and I kinf of space out a bit and experience a sort of pins and needles or goosebumps like sensation. Hard to describe properly. When I was horny teenager and jerked of constantly I I joked with my buddy that the penis a new toy every day, [often we jacked together but in the dark We planned to watch each other do it with the lights on but he kept chickening out. I should have jerked off in my bed [a few feet away] light on [moaning and saying Fuck yeh that feels so good] iand told him he was welcone to watch.