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Ask The Batemaster: Your Book “The Secret of the Golden Phallus” Changed My Life

QUESTION: I’ve recently finished reading “The Secret of the Golden Phallus,” and it changed my life. Now, I feel fully empowered to make my penis the center of my life, and to shamelessly enjoy its pleasures! How can I learn more about how to actually practice what you describe in the book?

RESPONSE: Thank you for your appreciation, and I am humbled, as well as pleased to hear how much the book means to you. Almost daily, now, I get similar messages from men who have read it. This encourages me that I’m on the right track, and I continue to try to inspire men with video coaching on the practices associated with the book.

Of course, the same things do not work for everyone; my individual Skype coaching and the free explicit coaching videos on my Erotic Engineering site are built upon that very fact. Erotic Engineering is built around the contents of the Golden Phallus book. The site offers specific instructions and demonstrations for practices to enhance your masturbatory pleasure. None of these absolutely required, but a willingness to try them is how you can benefit.

I suggest you begin with the video series “9 Golden Keys to Mindful Masturbation,” for which I wrote the scripts and then my handsome young friend Blue Tyger recorded his explicit demonstrations. Mindful Masturbation is the groundwork for even more advanced practices that the book talks about, only it’s all arranged in a specific order for good reasons.

This column is not specifically a platform to promote my own versions of advanced masturbation and erotic experiences, still, what you ask about are the directions I most like to encourage. Bateworld has a special virtue of appealing to a wide variety of styles and ages of male masturbators and I sincerely feel it’s all good—so long as you enjoy yourself and it doesn’t harm anyone. However, quite honestly the majority of men I observe masturbating can benefit from conscious and deliberate re-training in the basics of self-pleasure. We all get stuck in habits.

It’s easy for any man (myself included, totally) to slip into predictable habits of masturbation practice. Many of these habits stem from boyhood or teen years and can actually limit your pleasure. When you consciously and deliberately make a choice to open yourself to new possibilities and try new things, new horizons of pure penis pleasure open up for you.

Sometimes men slip into thinking they know all about masturbation and have nothing more to learn on the subject. I respectfully disagree. I certainly don’t know everything on the subject, and I continue to learn things daily as I continue my personal practice and my online interactions with male masturbators around the world. I don’t know of any “expert” whose expertise I would respect if he felt he knew everything on the subject. My work requires genuine humility.

Your penis is actually like a magical tool, like a magician’s wand or a wizard’s staff that can literally open the doors of perception for you. The possibilities truly become limitless. Please enjoy your own Golden Phallus—the one rooted between your legs!

Enjoy your own copy of The Secret of the Golden Phallus

A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.

Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.


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How Bruce P. Grether became the Batemaster

Among his earliest memories, Bruce recalls seeing an adult man’s penis swing about anchored in a nest of curly brown hairs when the man was changing clothes. That penis fascinated him and he somehow knew it was of major importance. He also remembers how good it felt to slide down a stairway banister or to climb a tree with pressure between his legs sending delicious sensations all through his body.

At an early age, he played doctor with another boy his age, and the frottage he enjoyed as they rubbed their penises together made him feel One with All Things.

He was older, maybe 9 or 10 years when he figured out how to actually masturbate while taking a shower. Immediately Bruce became a fan of self-pleasure, though, with puberty, he became extremely shy about his body being seen. Still, when his pubic hair sprouted and his penis grew bigger, it astonished him how incredible the sensations could feel with adult genitalia.

All through his 20s and 30s Bruce loved masturbating and did it often. Something kept tell him though, that there could be more to it. None of the books he read about Tantra and Taoist erotic cultivation provided simple how-to instructions. Finally, in his early 40s, he came upon Joseph Kramer’s video about male genital massage: FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN.

Having no playmates to try this with, he tried it on himself. In the process, he discovered what he soon named “Mindful Masturbation.” For 6 weeks he masturbated for hours every day, and did not ejaculate once! This was the Penis Paradise he had been looking for since his adventures playing doctor as a young boy. He was changed forever and lost most of his shyness and insecurities.

Bruce began to listen deeply to whatever his penis told him. This way he learned more and more about male masturbation, the penis, and he studied human sexuality. Soon he was hired to write professionally for the sex education site JackinWorld (dot) com, which he did for some years under the name “Bruce McFarland.”

Since then, his erotic activism is more radical and he uses his actual given name: Bruce P. Grether, AKA the Batemaster. He has hosted workshops and now does online masturbation coaching. In 2012 his best-selling book THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS was published and with his handsome young friend Blue Tyger he created the Erotic Engineering site to explore advanced male self-pleasure practices.

Bruce considers himself a Missionary of the Male Mysteries and his work continues.

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  1. It has changed many of our lives. While many of us have worked to piece together valid teaching on masturbatory bliss, Bruce’s work stands out in thoroughly examining how to make it so very special. Bruce is one of us (or rather we are ones like him) in that I am extremely dedicated to enjoying masturbation at a level most of the world’s men will ever know. He cares about it as much or more than we do (which I think is lacking in most of the publications and works I have seen in seeking everything I could find on the subject over the last 25 plus years).

    I love masturbation. Always have and always will. It has and will continue to be my primary source of sexual pleasure. The difference is that I now experience an abundance of pleasure that is life altering and a source of immense joy.

    thank you, Bruce!

    1. Dear Brother John: Thank you so much for your wonderful remarks! It means a great deal to me when men express appreciation for what I continue to offer. I’m always encouraged, as it’s a realm that seems like it ought to be pretty universal, given that most men have a penis… still, to truly explore the remarkable power and mysterious wonders of high states of pure penis pleasure–not to settle for the rather shallow enjoyment so easy to obtain–is till in many ways pioneering territory. Men who fully embrace exploration of the potentials of self-pleasure as self-love are on the genuine Erotic Frontier! Clearly you are there. Peace, Bruce