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Ask The Batemaster: Variety Is The Spice, Right?

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Published: October 16, 2020

Sincerely, as far as I am concerned all penises are beautiful in their own way. All men are beautiful in their own way. Personally, I really appreciate human variety.

QUESTION: I notice on your Erotic Engineering blogs the photos are so hot, but the guys are mainly young and well-endowed. Don’t get me wrong, Bro, I adore the wise and encouraging things you write there, which mean a lot! How about sharing more photos of guys who are older and some with smaller penises?

RESPONSE: Yes, Brother, I really do understand this. Both penis size, and concerns over aging and appearance in general are common among men, always, and in particular in today’s world of male masturbation online. I appreciate your suggestions and will keep them in mind.

My choice of photos for the blogs that I post about once or twice, sometimes three times in a month on www.eroticengineering.com are not primarily governed by any preference for an age or penis size. What I look for is photos that convey specific intensity of sensations, or awareness of how the penis and masturbation appear to actually affect and benefit the man involved.

The vast majority of men are somewhat more modest in penis dimensions than those men inclined to let themselves be photographed naked, erect, or in the act of masturbation. Also, as I’ve mentioned here before, when you place a camera between a man’s legs aimed at his penis, erect or not, the genitalia appears especially large in proportion to the rest of him. In some cases, I select such an image not so much because it emphasizes the dimensions of the penis, but its importance, and the marvelous details of its anatomical structure.

My concern is always to encourage men to openly appreciate and respond to the penises of their fellow men. I seek to include a variety of ages and types, as well as various skin colors and physiques. It’s probably impossible for me to completely avoid certain preferences of my own, in terms of appearance, though I try to work against that trend to some extent to appeal to a wider range of tastes.

Sincerely, as far as I am concerned all penises are beautiful in their own way. All men are beautiful in their own way. Personally, I really appreciate human variety. Generally, prefer to see guys who look like real individuals who happen to have been photographed naked or erect, or during masturbation.

Guys who clearly come across as models, or with attitudes that seem bored, jaded, arrogant, really tough or challenging, I’m less drawn to. It’s not just about pleasing myself, but to offer images that may inspire the readers of the blogs I write on that site, and somehow reflect the contents.

I can honestly say that in every case, these images are not selected and used due to large penis size, or the youth of the men involved—it’s the energy of unashamed eroticism that I see and feel from the images.

A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.

Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.

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How Bruce P. Grether became the Batemaster

Among his earliest memories, Bruce recalls seeing an adult man’s penis swing about anchored in a nest of curly brown hairs when the man was changing clothes. That penis fascinated him and he somehow knew it was of major importance. He also remembers how good it felt to slide down a stairway banister or to climb a tree with pressure between his legs sending delicious sensations all through his body.

At an early age, he played doctor with another boy his age, and the frottage he enjoyed as they rubbed their penises together made him feel One with All Things.

He was older, maybe 9 or 10 years when he figured out how to actually masturbate while taking a shower. Immediately Bruce became a fan of self-pleasure, though, with puberty, he became extremely shy about his body being seen. Still, when his pubic hair sprouted and his penis grew bigger, it astonished him how incredible the sensations could feel with adult genitalia.

All through his 20s and 30s Bruce loved masturbating and did it often. Something kept tell him though, that there could be more to it. None of the books he read about Tantra and Taoist erotic cultivation provided simple how-to instructions. Finally, in his early 40s, he came upon Joseph Kramer’s video about male genital massage: FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN.

Having no playmates to try this with, he tried it on himself. In the process, he discovered what he soon named “Mindful Masturbation.” For 6 weeks he masturbated for hours every day, and did not ejaculate once! This was the Penis Paradise he had been looking for since his adventures playing doctor as a young boy. He was changed forever and lost most of his shyness and insecurities.

Bruce began to listen deeply to whatever his penis told him. This way he learned more and more about male masturbation, the penis, and he studied human sexuality. Soon he was hired to write professionally for the sex education site JackinWorld (dot) com, which he did for some years under the name “Bruce McFarland.”

Since then, his erotic activism is more radical and he uses his actual given name: Bruce P. Grether, AKA the Batemaster. He has hosted workshops and now does online masturbation coaching. In 2012 his best-selling book THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS was published and with his handsome young friend Blue Tyger he created the Erotic Engineering site to explore advanced male self-pleasure practices.

Bruce considers himself a Missionary of the Male Mysteries and his work continues.

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