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Ask The Batemaster: Penis Coupling AKA Docking

Docking is a wonderful way for intact men to share at least some of the glory of having a foreskin…

QUESTION: My boyfriend is circumcised, with a beautiful penis. I have quite a long loose foreskin. We love docking, with my extra skin rubbing over the head of his erection. This feels amazing to me too. Seems we shoot more than ever this way! What do you think of this practice?

RESPONSE: Docking is a wonderful way for intact men to share at least some of the glory of having a foreskin with those guys (like me) who are circumcised, or even with other intact men for that matter! Truth is, I wish I had enjoyed more chances to experience the blissful feeling of another man’s foreskin’s silky glide and swirl over the puffy mushroom head of my own erection. I’ve done it more than once, but not as much as I’d like to.

As readers of my blogs here may be well aware, I feel all kinds of sock2cock, or frottage sharing between men is a delicious, powerful, and even profound experience. Sure, it can be enjoyed just for the electric hot intensity of rubbing your erect penis against the erect penis of a Phallic Brother. But this is a deep and fantastic form of nonverbal, ecstatic communication, like a kind of spiritual communion men can share.

Definitely the sensations of a foreskin slipping back and forth over the head of my penis is unlike quite anything else I’ve experienced—though I’m well aware it’s nothing like how this would feel if that was my own foreskin! It’s not even second best in a way, as I’ll never know what it’s like having that rich abundance of pleasure receptor nerves on a foreskin of my own communicating the pure penis pleasure to my brain. In that sense, even solo pleasure for intact guys is more like frottage for the rest of us… if you really think about it. The foreskin and penis head both have abundant pleasure receptor nerves.

This might sound a bit crazy to some guys, but in the system called Penis Reflexology the head of your penis corresponds with the head on your shoulders, so in a sense, when your boyfriend’s foreskin it stretched forward to enclose the head of your penis, it is almost like a merging of your minds! Certainly, to rub your penis against another man’s penis is something like rubbing your entire body against his entire body. Rubbing your cockheads together is something like deep kissing with your heads together.

So, when men share in Phallic Brotherhood, we move onto common ground, whether circumcised or not. There is really no limit to how sharing our penises can be enjoyed with other men—no limit but imagination! Sometimes, instead of using imagination, if you just play and fiddle around, you discover incredible forms of pleasure you never imagined!

Thank you for sharing about your wonderful practice with your boyfriend. I think it’s absolutely fabulous!

A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.

Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.


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How Bruce P. Grether became the Batemaster

Among his earliest memories, Bruce recalls seeing an adult man’s penis swing about anchored in a nest of curly brown hairs when the man was changing clothes. That penis fascinated him and he somehow knew it was of major importance. He also remembers how good it felt to slide down a stairway banister or to climb a tree with pressure between his legs sending delicious sensations all through his body.

At an early age, he played doctor with another boy his age, and the frottage he enjoyed as they rubbed their penises together made him feel One with All Things.

He was older, maybe 9 or 10 years when he figured out how to actually masturbate while taking a shower. Immediately Bruce became a fan of self-pleasure, though, with puberty, he became extremely shy about his body being seen. Still, when his pubic hair sprouted and his penis grew bigger, it astonished him how incredible the sensations could feel with adult genitalia.

All through his 20s and 30s Bruce loved masturbating and did it often. Something kept tell him though, that there could be more to it. None of the books he read about Tantra and Taoist erotic cultivation provided simple how-to instructions. Finally, in his early 40s, he came upon Joseph Kramer’s video about male genital massage: FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN.

Having no playmates to try this with, he tried it on himself. In the process, he discovered what he soon named “Mindful Masturbation.” For 6 weeks he masturbated for hours every day, and did not ejaculate once! This was the Penis Paradise he had been looking for since his adventures playing doctor as a young boy. He was changed forever and lost most of his shyness and insecurities.

Bruce began to listen deeply to whatever his penis told him. This way he learned more and more about male masturbation, the penis, and he studied human sexuality. Soon he was hired to write professionally for the sex education site JackinWorld (dot) com, which he did for some years under the name “Bruce McFarland.”

Since then, his erotic activism is more radical and he uses his actual given name: Bruce P. Grether, AKA the Batemaster. He has hosted workshops and now does online masturbation coaching. In 2012 his best-selling book THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS was published and with his handsome young friend Blue Tyger he created the Erotic Engineering site to explore advanced male self-pleasure practices.

Bruce considers himself a Missionary of the Male Mysteries and his work continues.

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