“We like to take turns, each of us doing both nips for the other guy, while he rubs our erections together.”

QUESTION:

My friend and I often masturbate face-to-face on his couch. We like to take turns with nipple play, each of us doing both nips for the other guy, while he rubs our erections together. This feels incredible for both of us, though we each have one more sensitive nipple than the other nipple. We breathe deep and go slow like you suggest, and this can last a long time. Do you hear about this often? I mean, both nips and the cock2cock together?

RESPONSE:

I cannot say that I often hear of the exact “buddy-bate” scenario you describe, but it does sound marvelous! I’ve enjoyed similar experiences myself, many times. Something valuable this brings up is also the matter of stimulating male nipples, as well as the delicious delight of men rubbing erect penises together.

Your nipples are the male equivalent of those generally larger nipples that women have, and in the case of women, they’re usually highly pleasurable for them. Since female and male bodies begin in the embryonic stages as the same basic design, then parts diverge into the specific differences seen with the fetus and after birth, male nipples are similar, though smaller.

Men vary a lot in terms of how sensitive your nipples are to stimulation. You can usually increase sensitivity quite a lot as I’ve spoken of elsewhere, with regular stimulation, perhaps even clips applied, so long as they do not cause actual damage. Your mention of each of you having one more sensitive nipple than the other is extremely common, and in my experience, most men will say this is true of them. Even if a man likes both nipples stimulated, usually one is more sensitive.

“You can usually increase sensitivity quite a lot as I’ve spoken of elsewhere, with regular stimulation, perhaps even clips applied, so long as they do not cause actual damage.”

I also speak about what we call the “Expressway Y” practice, of stimulating the frenulum at the underside of your penis head while also stimulating each of your nipples in turn. This will rewire new neural pathways into your brain and nervous system to increase your capacity for pleasure with such a practice. The top branches of the “Y” represent your two nipples, and the bottom “leg” of it represents your penis.

This proven practice clearly relates somewhat to how much you and your buddy love to each stimulate both of the other guy’s nips manually while the other guy rubs your erections together.  Keep at this, and in parallel with the “Expressway” you are likely to keep increasing your enjoyment indefinitely.

Thanks for sharing about what you do, and maybe other guys will be inspired to try it with their friends!

A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at BateWorld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.

Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.