In Search Of The Perfect Orgasm
QUESTION: Sometimes while edging, at some point I relax some pelvic muscles, my shaft surges, then jizz flows into my hand, but I stay hard and horny. My cream tastes a bit sweeter than with ordinary orgasms. DAMN, my dick is still raging hard and electrified! What’s happening, and how can I get there more consistently?
RESPONSE: You are experiencing an orgasmic state familiar to me, which is between a “dry orgasm” and a full-blown ejaculatory orgasm. Because you are edging, mentally you seek to pull back from the edge, but your body releases some semen, partly because you may be generating a lot of the components in your edging process. The different taste may be because it’s not all the components of full-blown ejaculatory semen.
Your semen does not come directly from your balls, as some guys still seem to imagine, rather it is only the actual sperm cells, those tiny guys with a pointy head and a long, wiggly tail, that form in your testicles. They travel what—to them—is a long journey from your balls up into your pelvic region closer to the base of your penis. Several other major components of semen are produced a bit closer to the actual launch site, their exit into the world.
To actually release a smaller amount of semen without going all the way and ending up in a post-orgasm state, losing your erection, and needing some rest before you get erect again, is tricky to do deliberately. It’s fine-tuning. This does happen to me a lot while I’m edging in high erotic states, and like you, I’ve noticed the milder or sweeter taste.
This partial release also makes really fine lubrication, though, after a while, it doesn’t mix so well with the regular lubrication I’m using. I may take a break to clean up before I resume stroking again.
Edging truly is a fine art, and I suggest the practice I call Mindful Masturbation, which means just paying full attention to exactly what you are really feeling, what you are doing. Reduce focus on porn or fantasy, instead, keep alert to your own body here and now.
I also suggest you try the dry orgasm techniques and see how many long you can go without ejaculating. Practice, practice, practice is always the key to masturbatory excellence. The diligent effort you put into your masturbation practice is definitely its own reward!
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A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
