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RECLAIMING MASTURBATION: PART 2 – MORE TRICKS OF THE TRADE!

A few days ago a dear friend of mine asked, "Garland, why are you writing about how to masturbate? Masturbation's been around as long as man's been on the planet!"

We both laughed 'cause his question is a legitimate one. Why write about something that, arguably, billions of people have engaged in for ages; putting hand or device to penis or vagina, stimulate until orgasm/ejaculation, the end. Of course his question insinuates that EVERYONE knows how to masturbate. Like, duh?

ASK DR. BATE

I woke up this morning at 3:30 and began to lightly tease my dick and balls for about 5 hours while watching porn. I did not cum. When I got done, my balls began to ache and now there is steady pressure between my balls and anus. What is the best way to get the pain to stop?

NAKED IN THE STREETS!

I had wanted to go on this ride for years but it never aligned with my schedule. As a sexologist and a body-diversity advocate, I try to find as many ways to affirm everyone’s body in its natural state as much as possible. Due to the hyper conformity of both centuries of puritanical religious dogma and modern day consumerism, one of the worst problems our society faces is that most of the population is disgusted by their own natural image. It may not sound like a big deal, but what we believe about our bodies is what we believe about ourselves...

RECLAIMING MASTURBATION: PART 1

I began a slow journey back to reclaiming the self-pleasures of my penis. Granted, against my parents' wishes, I continued to masturbate all those 22 years, but it was never something that I felt I could fully throw myself into as a self-loving and self-pleasuring activity - an activity whose own pleasure was reason enough to indulge. My folks, coupled with my religious upbringing, had previously and systematically ruined this self-loving potential. Every time I'd do it, I'd be riddled with guilt.

SENSE 8: The BatorBlog Review

We started out at one point talking about how evolution involves creating ever greater circles of empathy: You belong to your family, then you belong to your tribe, then two tribes link up and now you have empathy for your people on this side of the river… on and on through villages, cities, states and nations…

Global Pride Summit, June 1-5 2015

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The first-‐of-‐its-‐kind FREE ONLINE Global Pride Summit features Greg Louganis, Chaz Bono and an all-‐star LGBTA lineup here to empower, inspire, and celebrate the PERFECTION of LGBT people worldwide. The GLOBAL PRIDE SUMMIT (GPS) is a FREE, online, international summit serving the LGBTA world. Happening June 1-‐ June 5, 2015, GPS will coincide with June PRIDE celebrations throughout the United States and beyond.

DAWN OF THE SOLOSEXUAL

ORIGINALLY POSTED AT KINKLY.COM

If you ask any open-minded, educated person about masturbation, they will most likely smile and say it’s wonderful, healthy and normal. However, if you told them that masturbation was your favorite sexual outlet or even your only sexual outlet, that smiling face might turn into one of concern or confusion.

Stake In The Ground: Theater for Bators

Attendees at this year’s Healthy Friction event in Palm Springs were treated to a (un)dress rehearsal for Stake In The […]

IT’S MAYSTURBATION MONTH ON BATEWORLD!

It’s May… and we all know what that means… Masturbation Month… or what we like to call Maysturbation Month. Bators […]

IN WHICH WE ARE INTERVIEWED BY SHORTANDSWEETNYC.COM

I was honored recently to be interviewed by Ralph Greco for The Sex Files on shortandsweetnyc.com. When we started BateWorld, […]

HEADS UP: DAVID PEVSNER

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"Why am I posting these pictures? I posed for them, I'm proud of them, and they are no longer my "dirty little secret". I want all of us to feel good about our physicality and our sexuality, and not ashamed or embarrassed the way so much of society dictates. Over that...so over it."

MY EUROPEAN BATE-CATION REDUX PART 2: BARTHELONA!

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THIS SERIES WAS FIRST POSTED ON BATEWORLD.COM IN 2011. THURSDAY JULY 7, 2011 Pretty much all packed. More […]

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