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Cocks Connected Around the World Meditation

We can share the sexy and nurturing experience of stroking our cocks wherever we are, and that feels great! To be honest, it’s pretty amazing! It gives me strength and confidence and frees me to express my true feelings because I can actually see men all around the world doing the same thing. What could be more affirming to our masculinity but sharing one the most pleasurable experiences that is uniquely our own?

Ask Dr. Bate: Chronic Masturbation and Tending to the Temple

I am a physically fit 47-year-old man. I have always masturbated. But for the past 7 years I've increased the amount I touch my cock to 3-5 times a day. I mean, I can't get enough, even after sex I'll stay awake and stroke my hard cock to orgasm. For example, today I was off and I masturbated 6 times and made love to my beautiful wife.

Ask Dr. Bate: Too Hard To Sleep

No matter how much (daily shooting two + loads) I cum, I wake up early every morning (about 3 hrs.) so hard and I don't go soft ‘till I shoot. At my age of approaching 60 is this normal?

Nature Cock Visualization

This months Cock Meditation from Sexologist, Jallen Rix is a "Guided Visualization.” This genre of meditation takes the listener on an adventure - a kind of storytelling that the listener gets to imagine themselves within the experience. Since much of the visualization is left up to the listener’s fertile imagination, these kinds of meditations can become particularly personal and customized.

Edging: Perfecting The Bate

I’m Edged, Are You?
Edging (aka. orgasm control) is a bator practice that takes time and commitment and is definitely not for the faint of heart. One must indulge in masturbation on a daily, regular basis to reach the levels of not only a true masturbator, but a true edger.

Extra-Naked

Why I Love Hard Nudity
For as long as I can remember I've had a penis. I didn't ask for one, and, really, I don't remember thinking too much about it for most of my first decade. I didn't even know what to call it then...

Ask Dr. Bate: Cock Rings and Exhibitionism

Is it safe to wear a cock-ring for long periods of time while bating?
Dr. Bate's Answer:
This is a very good question as many guys use cock-rings during sexual play and sometimes just as an accessory, like a ring on a finger. The short answer is yes, under certain conditions, it can be safe to where a cock-ring for extended periods of time. The key here is to know your limits.

Contributors Wanted

We're looking for writers who can contribute articles about masturbation, the arts, activism, grooming, fashion, poetry or any other damn thing you can think of that might be of interest to our readers.

Hugh Hefner And The Playboy Legacy

Hugh Hefner deserves a huge amount of credit for mainstreaming sex in the modern age. He brought a dynamic and cross-platform lifestyle dimension into the lives of men, refining from the start his own vision of contemporary manhood that included personal style, living quarters, hot rides, literature and the arts (and of course, sexy ladies) as integral elements of the well-rounded man.

Ask Dr. Bate

I wanted to ask if there was ever a time when you watch a video or something in real life that got your cock rock hard instantly?

I do know a few men in my life that will get instantly rock hard from words, videos, photos, etc. Each person’s genitalia is unique and operates differently. It is important to know that however your cock responds is completely perfect. Remember that comparing your bodily arousal for the sake of judging is never beneficial or productive, but sharing stories is always intriguing! On that note, I would love to hear from other Bate Brothers about what turns you on erotically! Keep exploring!

CONNECTING WITH THE EROTIC MASCULINE: A Workshop for Men

Here is an opportunity to identify and feel great about the positive aspects of your masculinity in the accepting and nurturing presence of other like-hearted men, without competition, comparison or shame. There’s just something absolutely unique about being affirmed of your masculinity BY OTHER MEN, but in our culture these rituals have been upstaged by competition, performance, humiliation, fear of failure, bullying, hazing, and violence, to name a few. It doesn’t sound all that affirming or fun, does it?