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Ask Dr. Bate: Sneezing, Sexual Fluidity, And Arousal

Often times over the years I find that when I view an erotic photo I will sneeze uncontrollably right out of the blue. I've never heard of anyone else having this happen to them. It isn't chronic, but it does happen frequently. Have you heard of this happening to others?

A Bator’s Remembrance of Things Past

Once upon a time growing up in a rural backwoods corner of the world, I lived with my parents and attended high school. A simple life. All I had for the bate was the Hite Report on Male Sexuality. That was it. I would get boned reading people's accounts of their masturbation experiences, and using my right fist with saliva for lube

The Truth About The Male Orgasm Part 1: It’s Not What You Think

We are taught that as men we build to an orgasm, ejaculate and then require a refractory period before we can reach those heights again. Our erections go soft and though we may still remain aroused, we are physically incapable of shooting sperm or making our penises spasm with pleasure unless we wait. For some that wait time is minutes, for others it’s hours or even days. Though we’ve come to accept this as a normal part of the male sexual response, I know I speak for all of us when I say that however long that wait time is, it’s too long!

Mindful Masturbation Techniques: Episode 1

Masturbating is actually something like one of those humungous multi-stage rockets that they send up from Cape Canaveral, where you see this gigantic upright thing standing ready and waiting for ignition, then lift-off into Bater Bliss orbit. Yes, there are plenty of specifics that you can actually try that may help your lift-off into the Goon Zone where gravity can’t get you any longer, and you’re in erotic free-fall!

Review: Secret Of The Golden Phallus

With an introduction by the inimitable Joseph Kramer, the book is written by Bruce P. Grether, the originator of the phrase “Mindful Masturbation.” He had me at the opening of his preface, in which he writes This book is about only one thing: your relationship with your penis. His book speaks to the experience so many bators have of connecting to something divine during bate, connecting to all things, all times, all men who have ever masturbated, past, present and future.

MASTER OF MY DOMAIN

I just caught the masturbation episode of Seinfeld on TV tonight. The Contest is one of the brightest moments in a comedy series that was consistently brilliant, a loopy look at the details of ordinary experience and the pratfalls of neurotic Manhattan ennui. Larry David won an Emmy for writing The Contest, and it’s listed as #1 on TV Guide’s list of 100 Greatest Episodes of All-Time.

2257 Under Attack

The 2257 law held adult content providers responsible for an inordinately burdensome record keeping process. Its purpose to protect minors from sexual imagery is not something anyone in the adult industry had a problem with. It’s what the paperwork requirements do to free adult speech that’s the issue.

Retrospective: The Bate in the 80’s

In the early part of the decade, I came to the realization that I was a masturbator, that masturbation was my preferred sexual act. I didn't seem to know any other masturbators, though; not in the sense that I was. Still, I thought there had to be others, so I put a few personal ads in some gay sex publications looking for other masturbators.

Have You CREAM OF CONNER?

As a sexual icon, Conner Habib is one of a contemporary wave of porn stars using social media to celebrate sexuality without shame. He left an academic career to be a sex performer, and his commitment to proudly exposing himself to the world is something I admire (he’s currently retired, but his hard cock will always live on online). I often wonder what his former students must think when they see explicit images of Conner

MY EUROPEAN BATE-CATION REDUX: PART 3

The main floor of the two large complexes here is mostly all shopping, restaurants, and discos. That was one of the things I was most excited about, that you could go to all of these places naked. But when we got there, hundreds of people were all dressed up for a night out. We were the only two people walking around naked. I don't understand why when people have the opportunity to be nude, they wear clothes. I know I'm more of a committed nudist than most, but this IS a naturist resort!