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Ask The Batemaster: Pre-cum

The Lowdown on Cowper’s Gland Fluid
QUESTION: I’m a huge pre-cum fan, and it makes a great natural lube. But I don’t ooze a lot of it, and not all that often. What causes different guys to pre-cum more or less? Is there any way to increase the amount of pre-cum I ooze?

RESPONSE: The truth is that there’s a wide range of how much pre-cum guys ooze while aroused and masturbating, from none ever, to almost a constant fountain for a small number of men. The difference seems to be mostly genetic; however,

Calling in the Directions… of Cock!

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Sexperiential Lessons By A Bating Sexologist
I’ve just returned from the second Cock Summit which was another amazing success (tell you all about it in the forthcoming article). On Saturday night, we had a bonfire and to start it off, we wanted to enact the ancient ritual of calling in the directions. Some rituals call in the four directions (north, south, east, west), while I like to call in the seven directions (including above, below, and center). It’s a way to cast a spell of inclusion and blessing and possibility.

Ask The Batemaster: Masturbation And Food Cravings

Bruce P. Grether

How to Handle The Post-Bate Munchies
Question: When I finish bating, I have a sudden craving for chocolate. Is it normal to crave something after finishing?

Response: Part of my mission to encourage male masturbators is to urge you to consider your self-pleasure as part of a healthy practice of trying to love yourself better and better every day.

Ask The Batemaster: Assturbation And Tightness

Bruce P. Grether

Assturbation With A Tight Anus

Question: I have a very tight asshole. I finger it and can slip small objects into it for use as a dildo. But I can’t get anything bigger inside. I’m afraid to force anything bigger in and tear something. How can I safely stretch my hole? I use lube… any suggestions???

Ask The Batemaster: Prolonging The Bate

Bruce P. Grether

How to make the your bate session last longer!
QUESTION: What are the best few ways to prolong my bate sessions?

RESPONSE: This is a huge subject. For starters, make sure you are breathing deeply

Ask The Batemaster: Lube, Dry Skin and Porn

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To Lube or Not to Lube?
QUESTION:I typically masturbate without lube or lotion because I sit at the computer to chat, flip through porn, or have phone sex. I am worried that my penis is getting damaged due to dry skin, but I don’t want to get my computer/phone covered in lube. Any thoughts on this?

Ask The Batemaster: Edging And Sexual Health

Bruce P. Grether

Edging Versus Frequent Ejaculations and Men's Prostate Health. I have heard that frequent ejaculation is good for the prostate, but I wonder if sustained edging over a period of days, weeks, and in some cases months, is harmful to a man’s prostate?

The Glories of Bating Outdoors

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Sexperiential Lessons by Dr. Jallen Rix
I am lying naked on my back under the sun. It’s the first day of Spring that I can really call hot, and I just couldn’t take another stressful afternoon of city life. So I drove out of town, along with our local river to a dirt parking lot off the highway. From here, a path leads to a nude beach.

Honing your online skills: Words of Arousal

Insights from a bating sexologist, Dr. Jallen Rix (hand2rod)

"You don't just masturbate... you display, you exhibit your sexuality as much for the viewer's pleasure as your own... it pleasures you to masturbate for us... you look at the camera as if watching us watching you as you entertain us with your naked self-pleasure. It's that desire to be enjoyed sexually by others that I find so erotic about you. xxx"

Sharing Mindful Masturbation Techniques, Part 1 (Online)

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Many men in today’s world (sometimes myself included) enjoy masturbating to porn on the Internet, which can prove highly arousing and provide great bate fuel. In my opinion, porn is sacred, as it shares an extremely important part of our lives that most mainstream cultures still frown upon and often seek to keep hidden.

Ask Dr. Bate: A Transition

Endings and Beginnings
All of us at BateWorld and The BatorBlog want to thank Garland and Toby for their insightful and thought-provoking articles for The BatorBlog's Dr. Bate column. After two years of monthly articles, they'll now be moving on to pursue their calling in private practice and group workshops, and we all want to wish them the best.

Making Noise Masturbation Technique, Part 2

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Sometimes when I ejaculate in the presence of another man or men, my screams and shouts of ecstatic release with the orgasm are so loud that I’ve actually frightened a few guys! And even when I choose not to ejaculate, I can groan and growl alarmingly

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