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Ask The Batemaster: I Can’t Stop Thinking of Penises and Masturbation

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I just think about penises and masturbation all the time! Almost every guy I see, good-looking or not, that’s what I really want. Am I obsessed? Is this normal?

Ask The Batemaster: My Partner Doesn’t Like Me To Masturbate

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After many years single and lonely, I’ve got a great partner and we do love each other, only he doesn’t like me to masturbate! Help!

Ask The Batemaster: The Spirituality of Frotting

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We can frot for hours with lots of lube, and don’t ever get tired of it. This is almost like a religion to us. I think it’s spiritual! What do you think?

Ask The Batemaster: The Psychedelic Penis

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By cultivating my erotic energy mindfully, I’ve experienced profoundly altered states that seemed “out-of-body” or “psychedelic” without the use of drugs.

Ask The Batemaster: Bate Tips From My Brother

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"My older brother is a big fan of yours and gives me detailed tips on “how to!” He showed me some strokes using a banana. Is this okay, in your opinion?"

A Penis By Any Other Name…

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Our manhood goes by many names. You can probably think of another 10+ words or idioms to add to the list above. It’s impressive, almost a compliment really.

Ask The Batemater: Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series

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Can you tell a little about the characters in your own books that masturbate? I mean, the books you write. Who are they and how explicit does it get?

Ask The Batemaster: Real Bator Pride

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Lots of guys put down bating, like it’s just a joke, a stupid thing to do. Why do so many guys just not “get” that bating is so incredible and even profound?